who suffers the most?

@esphyka (158)
Philippines
September 11, 2008 12:33pm CST
who suffer the most? the wife or the mistress?
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4 responses
@lemayan (188)
• Germany
11 Sep 08
i think the mistress, she has no legal ground, she is there to please the man and she knows it, and were he to tire of her, then ofcourse he would get rid of the woman, a mistress tries very hard to please her man not to question too much lest it anger him and ofcourse never to let the wife know because that would be the end of their relationship. Her relationship with the man consists of a number of stolen hours, as for the wife, her suffering is that of betrayal, the knowledge that her man sleeps with another woman is more than she can bear, she is constantly in doubt of her man's movements because he could say he is at work, when clearly its not working hours but she also has more ground, she can question his movements she has more legal ground and she is in a position to do something about it.
• United States
11 Sep 08
I think the wife. She married him believing it would be only her in his life. The mistress knew there was someone else from the beginning.
• Philippines
29 May 09
definitely the mistress, believe me.
12 Sep 08
Well for me it is the wife because she is trying to make the relationship work... Not knowing that she is already cheated...
@my2boys (821)
• United States
11 Sep 08
I think it depends on the situation at hand.