my wife the cheater

September 11, 2008 3:52pm CST
So i found out last week that my wife of 2 years had gotten drunk at a work function and then proceded to sleep with a guy after the function. She hid this from me until she got drunk again and let it slip. I love her more than life itself but cannot seem to find my place in all of this. She says she loves me and has expressed how sorry she is for hurting me and our family but where does it stop. I know she should be held responsible for her actions but it was my actions that i pushed her away. Well we have spent the last 2 weeks working this out and i feel somewhat better when she is around but as soon as she is away i feel like my world has crumbled again. I know it will take time to heal these wounds or i may bleed forever only we have the power to fix our problems. Just wanted to get this off my mind. Thanks community Killa
1 response
@keasling (723)
• United States
11 Sep 08
The pain you must be going through is unimaginable to me. You two can get through this if you love each other.
11 Sep 08
and that is how i knew it was true, because each time i tried to walk out that night i came back no matter how hard it was to do so i know it is true