Do you still get jealous?

@aize003 (225)
Philippines
September 12, 2008 2:25am CST
Do you still get jealous to your ex boyfriend's new gf/wife ex girlfriend's new bf/husband? even if you are also in a new relationship,how will you cope with it?
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8 responses
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
12 Sep 08
Hi friend,I haven't had such an experience.But if it happens I would not feel jealous because am no longer in relation with him.So it doesn't bother me ,if it bothers me then it means am still in love with the person.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.
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• United States
12 Sep 08
Of course. Everyone does at some point. It's a natural reaction. If someone claims to not care, then they have serious emotional detatchment issues. Either that or they are lying. Plus you have to take into account if your ex's actions being scripted to make you feel that way. In most cases, they are. Again, it comes down to if they admit it or not. After most break ups, the other party usually feels betrayed or empowered depending upon who initiated the split. So naturally yours and his actions will differ depending on if your in the same room or not. Its childish and stupid, yet its the truth. Now to deal with it.... Keep your distance. Ostrich syndrome and the like. Out of site out of mind. If you have to see them on a regular basis, such as if you attend the same school or work in the same building. Then your problem is much harder. Just remind yourself that you are not with that person for a reason. Dont blame yourself for being jealous. Just remember that whatever is going through your head at the time. He likely is thinking the same thing about you.
@aize003 (225)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
Thanx I really appreciate your response happy mylotting
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
12 Sep 08
No I don't get jealous over an ex girlfriend. I do treasure the good moments that we had together. But if we decided to move on in our lives we should set each other free. If we have decided to leave each other and lead our own lives than there is no room for jealousy anymore. Despite ending a love relationship it does not mean friendship has to end after all.
@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
i don't ., i am actually happy to see him okay that he has a new girlfriend now since i am into relationships now., i guess we should be both feel happy with each other for having a new partner now.,
@aize003 (225)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
but what if you are trying to moved on but her new gf/wife keeps bothering you I mean saying how stupid i you are and how lucky they are to be in a happy relationship..and trying to ruin your life with your new bf saying bad things about you
@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
22 Sep 08
I doesn't bother me at all and I won't get jealous of him since he is my ex and is the past and I had my new relationship and of course he should have his.
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
i'm not in a relationship with him anymore so why the jealousy?when i broke up with him i know for a fact that anything that he'll do i wouldn't care anymore especially having a new girlfriend..and why would i get jealous i'm into relationship also..so instead of knowing my ex activities i would rather focus on my new boyfriend..past is past and live with the present..(",) happy mylotting! (",)
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
12 Sep 08
Well to be honest, i don't care about what happens in the romantic relationships of my ex. I wish her the best in the world and because i have a new girlfriend i don't care about her private life. I hope she's fine and lives a long happy life with who ever she wants.
• China
12 Sep 08
if you were jealous to some one, it shows they means too much to you, i don't have that feeling to my ex-bf, because when the love is gone, he didn't have any relationship with me, he likes a passing by, i think if i still to be jealous, then means i still care about him, oh, thank god, i don't have that feeling. but for the boyfriend right now, i will be jealous, i love him, love makes human be jealous.