what if your friends stop sending letter to you...

September 12, 2008 5:45am CST
everybody has a friend or friends right. well guess we're not an island right... but what if your friends stop sending you a letter... even you need them the most... you send them a help message not only once but billion of times but they nerver replied. worse you send them a SMS but totaly it seem that they had an amnesia about you... will you hate them?
4 responses
@chabawel (330)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
Unfortunately, each one of us run our own separate lives. Have you tried calling your friend's family to check if your friend got sick? This might be a possibility. Your friend might have been confined to a hospital (and you know cell phones are not allowed in the hospital) and you didn't know a thing about it. Maybe something happened and your friend just wants to be alone. Before you become negative about your friends absence, think about your friend's welfare. He/she might be undergoing a lot of stress and you can't do anything about it because your friend is dealing his/her problems on his/her own. Be open minded. Don't stress out. You will know why you're not getting any response once your friend come out in the open. Until then, try to enjoy life because it's you who make your world go round.
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
Hi there luntian_grace! This happened to me lately and I still feel bad until now. This actually did not happen to me once. It happened quite a few times to me. I do not get it. I do not understand why the people you depend on most suddenly just go MIA (as in Missing in Action) when you needed them most. There are times when I would just think that maybe they are just too busy and that they also have problems that are probably worse than mine. But hey! It would be better if they would at least tell you what is going on so you wouldn't be waiting for nothing right? But you see, it is during our trying times that we get to know who our real friends are...
@Bvethe21 (19)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
There was a time that I was so depressed and I need someone to talk to. I tried to reach them, but I got no response from them, for some reasons...I hate them.
@ronaldinu (12454)
• Malta
12 Sep 08
I will be greatly offended if a close friend do not reply anymore to my sms. However I would treat them as they treat me. I would make my steps to continue this friendship. If they don't comply I will refrain from contacting them anymore.