Relation?
By Angel
@nanayangel (7879)
Philippines
September 12, 2008 9:24am CST
Have you ever been in a relationship which is filled with lies and betrayals?
I have been in one when I was in my first year of college. We didn't took each other and our commitment seriously. We are only like in a relationship when we're together. Our relationship was on and off, on and off, until one day, I decided not to take him back again. We were both lying to each other and we had other relationships.
How about you? How did you get out of the relationship?
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5 responses
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
hi nanayangel! 
i have never been in such a relationship before but i do have experienced being betrayed and it hurt like hell and i felt like i was treated like a toy and a game. one of my exes sure had a way in making me believe that he really loved me. but he was just flattered when he knew i like him. and he was even more flattered when his ex and i kinda fought because of him. and i felt happy when he chose me but then in the end, he only hurt me. he tried to court one of my friends and a few people know it. imagine the hurt and humiliation. he was just playing around and i became a victim of his game. good thing my friend never entertained him.
i immediately broke up with him and when i said "let's break up". it seemed those were the words he was waiting for and he just nodded without even asking me why! and that hurt me more. so i thought it was really a good decision that i called the break up.
i have never been in such a relationship before but i do have experienced being betrayed and it hurt like hell and i felt like i was treated like a toy and a game. one of my exes sure had a way in making me believe that he really loved me. but he was just flattered when he knew i like him. and he was even more flattered when his ex and i kinda fought because of him. and i felt happy when he chose me but then in the end, he only hurt me. he tried to court one of my friends and a few people know it. imagine the hurt and humiliation. he was just playing around and i became a victim of his game. good thing my friend never entertained him.
i immediately broke up with him and when i said "let's break up". it seemed those were the words he was waiting for and he just nodded without even asking me why! and that hurt me more. so i thought it was really a good decision that i called the break up.1 person likes this
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
that was a long time ago. no need to be sorry for it. ^__^ and i've learned a lesson and that made me stronger. thanks for the best response.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Hi there Secret Bear!
I'm sorry to hear that. It's great that you have the courage and strength to end the relationship though. He's just not worth it and you deserve someone better.
There are just some men who got the talent for making a girl feel really special. Actually, for some, it's in their nature and they don't mean to make every girl feel that way but of course, there are always exception.
Thank you very much for your response and for sharing your experience.
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@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
I'm glad to hear that. You're welcome. You deserve it.
God bless and have a nice day.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
12 Sep 08
[i]Hi nanayangel,
I have no similar relationship, when I was in College, I enjoy entertaining suitors but I will not go into commitment..lOl! I was just weak about trusting easily guys before and I was not brave enough to try a serious relationship, So, it ends up that they are just my friends!
ANyway, I am happily married now and hoping and praying we will never experience about that sad thing!
I know there are temptations all over but if we remain faithful to each other, we will really surpass those![/i]
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
Hi there Che!
Yes, you're right. I have an aunt too who isn't much into relationships but enjoys having lots of suitors instead. You know how men show you their very best in the period of courtship and she preferred to make it stay that way. 
I can't blame you and you're definitely not alone. There are lots of other women who find it hard to give their trust no matter how much they love the man. As the saying goes, "To ask love without jealousy is to ask the sun to not cast a shadow".
Thank you very much for your response.
I can't blame you and you're definitely not alone. There are lots of other women who find it hard to give their trust no matter how much they love the man. As the saying goes, "To ask love without jealousy is to ask the sun to not cast a shadow".
Thank you very much for your response.
@snakequeen (1299)
• India
12 Sep 08
Hi nanayangel! Fortunately or unfortunately, i didn't have any relationship filled with either lies or betrayals! One knows for certain that any relationship built on lies or visionary castles cannot sustain test of time and cannot last long!
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
Hello Snake Queen!
Fortunately, I would say, then. You're right. It's all a waste of time and effort and you might get hurt in the process too.
Thank you very much for your response.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
Hi there Patzel!
That must have hurt a lot. To be betrayed is one thing but doing it with your best friend is taking it to the highest level. I'm sorry to hear that and I'm sure that he's not worth it. You deserve someone better.
Thank you very much for your response.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
Hi there Esphyka!
It's great that your knight in shining armor found you. And it's nice to hear that you're happy now.
Stay happy and thank you very much for your response.
