Can't Be Friends?

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I was really good friends with a girl in school- we were inseperable for many years. When we got to high school, we drifted apart simply because she dropped out of school and I didn't. The next time I saw her, she was dating a guy I had just split up with and pretty much rubbing it in my face that she had him now- I haven't seen her since then and that was about 15 years ago. Last week, I got an email through myspace- it was her. She's now living in another state and we emailed back and forth for several hours, for several days. We have not discussed the guy that we had both dated at all- that's ancient history for me- we were young and stupid, so I let it go. She told me that she's gay, and was in a relationship for the last 5 years. The following day, this girl split up with her and she was devastated- I emailed her all night talking her through her grief. The next thing I know, she is wanting to move back to this state, and needs a place to stay. I sent her some links to apartment complexes here in the city and told her what I knew about them- then she said that she figured she could stay with me and we could "see what happens". Now, I'm not homophobic at all, however I have absolutly no doubts about my own sexuality and I am 100% into men. I told her that nothing would happen because I had no interest in her that way- and she has never emailed me back. I emailed her again to ask how things were going with her, and she has read the email, however she has not responded. Why am I feeling guilty when I don't think I did anything wrong? Her and I have always just been friends, and just because I'm not a lesbian- she doesn't want to be friends anymore? I'm just not getting it.