Can someone fall in love wit 2 people.

September 13, 2008 10:53am CST
My friend claims she is in love with two guys at the same time.I can't believe her although she have tried to make me believe.I just think she is confused.Can she truelly be in love with two people at the same time.
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• Indonesia
13 Sep 08
No, it's impossible. If she said like that it means she doesn't fall in love with any of you. She just like or feel crazy about you two, but not love. Love is deeper than just admiring physical appearance, enjoying time together, or wanting to meet oftenly. When you really fall in love to someone then there will not be someone else that could replace you. If she start to see aomeone else, it means she doesn't love you anymore; her feeling has downgraded from love to like or crazy about or admiring.
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14 Sep 08
Thank you very much for your response.I really appreciate it very much.But you seem to have gotten it wrong.I am not among the two guys she is claiming to be in love with.She just confess to me that she dodn't know what to do with both guys.Thanks anyway for the response.
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• Indonesia
14 Sep 08
Oh, sorry for the misunderstanding. I got it wrong. Anyway, you know what I mean.
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@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.
@potrish78 (742)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
I think it's possible but each with a different intensity. OK! Let's be more specific on this one. If she really claims that she is in love with two guys then she must have spent months of friendship with these guys and later on blossom into a deeper feeling which is love. But If these two guys are her suitors and she can't seem to make up her mind then I agree with you, she is just confused about her feelings or she likes the idea of having someone courting her and making her feel special. Maybe she's not ready to loose that kind of attention that's why she is not choosing. But loving two people is really very possible though you have to take into consideration the intensity of the feelings. Cuz I'm pretty sure one might outshine the other.
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
16 Sep 08
I believe that she can like two people at once but she must really love one more than the other. i think one she truely love and the other one is just someone she wants to love and will try to make herself love but when really its lust. Have her go through the pros and cons of each of them and ask her what it is she really "loves" about these two guys.