What A Way To Start The Day

United States
September 13, 2008 11:52am CST
Around 5am I was awakened from my slumber, by a friend phoning me and telling me she needed someone to hurry over to her house otherwise she just may end up doing something to harm herself. Being one who takes things like this seriously, I jumped out of bed, got dressed quickly, and drove over to her house as quickly as I could without breaking the law. Upon arriving at her house, everything was dark, so I jumped out of the car and frantically pounded on her door. Surprising not waking the neighbors as I did this. When she finally answered the door, she sounded cheerier than what she had previously sounded on the phone and started to laugh a little. I asked what was up and why she thought harming herself would solve any issue that she may have been having. She just said, nothing, she was just feeling lonely and wanted some company and never had any intentions of harming herself. At that point I was a little infuriated with her, since she knows how seriously I take things like that, having lost two previous friends to suicide in the past. I can understand about the feeling lonely part and would have been over to her house anyways without the need of her adding the "harm herself" part. Though I was mad with her, I told her that anytime she needed company to call and I'd be over, she had no need to tell a lie just to get me over, and told her to be careful about doing that to too many people, cause eventually no one would believe her, if in fact she really was going to harm herself. What would you have done? Would you have gotten mad about a friend who was joking about suicide? or?
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@pkraj111 (2458)
• India
13 Sep 08
I would have got mad at such stupid jokes. I know how tense you would have felt on hearing her call and rushed to her. I myself would have come straight to the point and explain I don't like that kind of jokes and stop repeating if they want to be friends with me.
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• United States
14 Sep 08
Believe me, I was really angry with her, but I can also be forgiving, so I just told her calmly that I would be there for her if she had another of her lonely moments. She's going through a divorce right now, so she's sort of needing friends to support her and be there for her.
@pkraj111 (2458)
• India
14 Sep 08
I too will be forgiving, but will make my point clear that I don't like such cheap tricks
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
13 Sep 08
I think that I would be pretty upset if some did this to me and I would definitely make sure they learned their lesson to never do that again. It's not funny and it's really cruel. Nobody should have the right to do that.
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• United States
14 Sep 08
You are right. Plus it's lessen the trust a little as well, since if she were to really feel as if she were going to hurt herself, no one would believe her, until she really did commit the act.
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
YOu know, if that happens to me I will get angry. Did that person realize how I am afraid that they will do harm on themselves. They don't realize others feelings. They don't care for others care, they are selfish.I am you, even though she is my friend, i will get mad and speak to her what i feel. All the words she said is no joke. What if something happens to me on the way to go to her, can she take account. I hate people like that, they are so juvenile.
• United States
17 Sep 08
Unfortunately, some people just don't think before speaking. She knew she was in the wrong for saying what she was said, but she also thought that I would not come over if she just said that she was lonely and needing someone to talk with. But really that is not a way to make me feel happy about going over to see her.
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
YOu know, if that happens to me I will get angry. Did that person realize how I am afraid that they will do harm on themselves. They don't realize others feelings. They don't care for others care, they are selfish.I am you, even though she is my friend, i will get mad and speak to her what i feel. All the words she said is no joke. What if something happens to me on the way to go to her, can she take account. I hate people like that, they are so juvenile.