my cousin and my ex end up with each other

September 14, 2008 9:50pm CST
whoa, last night my cousin give me a ring telling me that she's getting married and im one of the bridesmaid..and i asked her who was the lucky guy, she paused and told turned out that the lucky guy who has my cousins heart was my ex. Boooom, it really hit me, for a moment i didnt talk, but i manage to smile and just say BEST WISHES, but im hurt inside, i dont know we broke up 1 year ago, but it still hurts me, maybe because their is a small envious feeling on me saying that he is not happy with new love of his life but me im still down...
1 response
• United States
15 Sep 08
That's pretty rude. For her to be dating your ex and not even let you know about it, or possibly ask for your feelings about this then to ask you to be a bridesmaid at their wedding - yikes! I would think that could make everyone uncomfortable and she shouldn't have put you in that position. I would say decline nicely or ask if you could do something else like greet people, she should understand.