how do you work it out?
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
September 15, 2008 5:05pm CST
when couples get into fights they have different ways of working it out most times and then they are alright...and sometimes me and my other have fights and when we do i would rather sit there and talk with her about it and work it out at the time instead of waiting and ruining all of our day by being mad at each other and then working it out that night...but that is just what i like to do whenever i have fights with her...but i was just wondering about all of you and maybe i will get an additional idea...thanks for taking the time out of your day to read and review my discussion and hopefully answer...i hope that everyone had a great day today and will continue to have a great day and have a great night as well, again thanks for taking the time to read my discussion!
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
16 Sep 08
Hi JHL, it's fortunate that my hubby is more tolerant of me than I'm of him. Most of the time we had an argument or quarrel, he would try to pacify me.
I have a short fuse, and sharp tougue. To stop myself from saying things that I might regret later, I would just shut up, and refuse to talk to him. He would let me cool down and then talk to me.
But if I know it's my fault or mistake, I'd make the first move to talk to him. 

