Which One Do you Prefer, A Truth or A Lie?

Indonesia
September 16, 2008 12:49am CST
Hi my Lotter's I wonder with this kind of people which doesn't like to accept the truth when somebody say to them a fact, there's so many explanation and facts about the truth telling to him/her, but they don't want to hear any other words beside their own opinion, they gone mad, sad or doing some crazy things ... i wonder that these reacts is one of the immature behaviour ... So what comes in my mind is they're much more like a lies than a truth ... How 'bout your thinking? It's open discussion here to talk, it is free talk here ... Share your opinions about this ... Things that you should know is any lies ended with pain whether it's happen to yourself or people ... Am i correct?
4 responses
@deathvans (301)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Well for me.. I'll rather know the Truth... Instead of a beautiful but filthy little lie.. I hate liars.. Hehe.. ^_^
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• Indonesia
16 Sep 08
You got my point! I'm not hate but i just don't like liars either
@ellie333 (21018)
16 Sep 08
Hi Maximillian, I prefer the TRUTH at all times, the one thing I don't have time for is lars and when I was bringing my girls up they knew if the confessed the truth about anything they had done wrong they would be in far less trouble than if I found out that they had been lying to me. The truth always comes out in the end anyway eh! I also can take constructive critism and appreciate it as to me that is another truth and you can learn by it. People who lie are also lying to themselves so I feel sorry for them for doing this as there is no need for it. I respect people also who have a different opinion to me and won't judge and this can stretch you in a positive way as it may make you look at things from a different perspective. In fact in the past I have given a best response to someone who didn't agree with me as I found it really refreshing to hear. Ellie :D
• Indonesia
16 Sep 08
That's right! People had done wrong would be in far less trouble if they confessed the truth, because a lie is hiding from another lie, if there's one lie, they will be second, third ... etc2 that it could be worst for ourselves, i also welcome constructive critism, but i don't like if people get mad or blaming our perspective which in later time our word becomes fact in their life (i guess this typical person do not need our perspective, but act like they really need it) It's a good point from you ...
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@ellie333 (21018)
16 Sep 08
Hi I would just like to say thankyou for the best response, it is appreciated. Ellie :D
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
18 Sep 08
I hate lying but sometimes it becomes a necessary thing to do. Otherwise sometimes we loose important people and their faith on you. Like I havr to sometimes tell i lie to my girlfriend for very small things. Which is really bad. I dont even like it but if i tell her the truth she will be angry and will not talk to me for few days. I don't want to loose her at any cost. I usually lie on certain situations its not a habbit anyway to lie on small small things. I never use to lie to my parents and I still dont. I share everything with. There are few exceptions but mostly i dont lie.
• Indonesia
19 Sep 08
I keep on tryin to tell a truth to my bf, i know if i tell him a truth he will be mad, and so do he,i'll get mad, but it's only a few days, and i think, we both think it's ok, because a relationship started with trust each other, because i know who i am, that's what i am, and that's what i do ... accept it or not,if he doesn't accept me and doesn't like it, i don't really care ... because it relates with his consideration why he choose me as his gf, he must accept whatever i am
• India
16 Sep 08
I like to tell lies to my closed ones bcoz i dont want to lose them all.If the truth makes them feel bad about me , Then i must to lie to them later at certain period i will tell them all the truth ,I hope at that time it makes them to believe me ....mostly it happened with my MOM...i know she wont leave me at all ,but though I dont want them to feel bad about me.I love my MOM...
• Indonesia
16 Sep 08
If you start something with lying, then how it's in the end if they know for a long time you have been lying to them? Well you know it by yourself, and i believe your mom's will gonna love you no matter what you do ... just think about your mom's feeling, if she knows you are lying to her after all ... I know it's hard but i think it's the right way