platonic relationships

Trinidad And Tobago
September 16, 2008 10:48am CST
I'm married 2 yrs now and my husband never really takes me out but makes time for his friends and also made plans to carry out other female friends and always tell me he doesn't have time whenever i ask him to take me out. He tells me that I'm very insecure, am I wrong for feeling this way?
4 responses
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
16 Sep 08
smells like BS to me , so basically he has all the time in the world and even goes all the way out with his friends when you on the other hand stay and wallow at home ..sounds entertaining ..but really no thats not cool at all , to me his excuse is , that ur his wife , and you guys will have all the time in the world to go out ..but when is that time ? ...and why cant he bring you along , and if he did , you two still need time alone on dates thats understandable ..no your not insecure
• Trinidad And Tobago
16 Sep 08
thanks because i thought i was crazy
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
16 Sep 08
your welcome
@joy4you (641)
• India
17 Sep 08
I think you really need to sit and discuss this one with him, tell him how you feel and if he still says that you are insecure tell him that he should help you then to overcome what he thinks are your insecurities. Wish you all the best.
@yadav8797 (1211)
• India
16 Sep 08
hi rennell1, first of all welcomes to mylot.i think you are newbie here because your numbe of post is so less.friend,its very sad to hear that your husband ignoring you.its not fair my dear friend,atleast your husband has to give time to go out with you in a week or a month.so that your relationship keep going and go strong.otherwise,your relationship get damage or destroy. friend ,you are feeling right because if your husband gives times to there female friend.so why not gives times to you.its not fair my dear friend.if this keeps going.then,you wil try to give divorce to him.ok,otherwise you will lost your life totally. happy mylotting
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
Good day... Well that's another BS to me. I mean he can go out with his male and female friends and you on the other hand just have to stay at home and grow roots or something like that. There seem to be a problem there. and you should get into it.