I want to leave my girl friend but dont know how to tell here. Please help.

United States
November 6, 2006 3:47am CST
I want to leave me girl friend but dont know ho w to lett here. The reason for doing this is that she want me to live according to here and i feel trap with her now. But i also not want to hurt her.
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10 responses
• Indonesia
6 Nov 06
yeas, just avoid her...
• United States
6 Nov 06
Wont she feel bad if i avoid her.
@juicemilk (2286)
• Australia
10 Nov 06
yes she will, that is not good advice! that is being a coward
@xbrendax (2668)
• United States
6 Nov 06
You could say something like: It is not you,you are a beautiful person, it is me! I have to go away and find my self, for I am not happy and have to know why?!!
• United States
6 Nov 06
Thanks for your reply.
@venkatcse (234)
• India
10 Nov 06
if you ask me, You are making a mistake. Dont ever leave your girl at any cause. Its easy to loose them but tough to get such a friend
@shi_2000_21 (2681)
• India
10 Nov 06
My simple question is that do you love her. There can be only one path, you can live according to her wishes or live according to your wishes. But if you sincerely love her and she loves you, then both of you will find a solution to this problem. But if just passing the time with each other, then it is better to live separately.
@caraj444 (1080)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
if you dont love her and dont want to be with her think of it as a good thing for her too, the sooner you let her go the sooner she can begin getting over you and start finding the person who is right for her. if she want to be with you still there is no possible way to avoid hurting her but shes going to be a lot less hurt in the long run if your honest with her and tell her why, if you dont make your reasons clear she may always wonder what happened if your honest shell have closure and be able to move on
@Solja420 (2507)
• United States
10 Nov 06
hmmm how bout over the phone
@Akbarali (223)
• India
10 Nov 06
Tell her that you are in love with other
• United States
10 Nov 06
I know you don't want to hurt her, and you are afraid. But, you need to tell her. If you cannot, how about sending a letter or email. But, you need to tell her.
@kaidei (696)
• Malaysia
10 Nov 06
dont have to say it to her just make her feel like in a bad dream if she with you hohohohoh
@lingli_78 (12844)
• Australia
6 Nov 06
honesty is the best policy... just tell her honestly how you feel about her and what do you want to do...