whats your ideal of being good?

with my kids I really never told them the were bad and the only thing they got corrected on was being polite to elders and not pick up cuss words that they were bad words and shoudlnt be said. Of cource when they grew up they have used the cuss words. You have to set an example of what you want then to grow up like and just teach them how to be good. Sometimes no matter how hard you try some kids might turn out bad. It doesnt need to be told to them all they time they are bad would prpbably work better to tell them how good they are.

We look for ways to get them to appreciate all that they have also the numerous people in their lives that love, support and care for them. The best gift you can give your child is the ability to think for him/herself. So, this is our job as a parent to teach and tell to our children explain right or wrong over and over again.

My idea of being good is when children follow my reasonable orders such as keeping their room tidy, have good table manners, help in the little house chores that are assigned to them. When they respect their parents or their elders.

To me i always explain to them that being bad is hurting someone.so being good is not hurting someone,they can all they want to their life just make sure that what they are doing does not affect someone in a bad way.