Do You Think Polite People Are Mostly Cheated For Their Politeness ?

@Ganesh44 (5547)
India
September 17, 2008 11:12pm CST
Hey I m from India ....I am seeing politeness is slowly and steadily is considered as sin....agressivesness is taking place of politeness .... I have seen many instances polite people being cheated and made fools often.... Do you agree agrasiveness is preferred over politeness and polite people are more cheated ? Thanks Ganesh
3 responses
18 Sep 08
Hi Ganesh44, I really don't know what is going on in this world if you have to be rude and agressive to get what you want, I hate rude people and if I go to a shop and they rude to me I will never go there again, tere is nothing wrong with being polite and I wish more poplite were polite in your country and change the whole systems of things, why dow you think it is sinful to be poilte? surely it is more sinful to be rude and agressive. Tanmara
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
18 Sep 08
ohhh I am deadly against agressiveness and rudeness.....but I am sorry to say it is a new sort of culture that is picking up here in India ......people who are rude and aggressive are considered better as they can press polite person to get their work done first ..... Although it is unfortunate .....but its a picking trend ....they take being aggressive and rude makes one more intelligent and smart ...which infact is not true .... I always wonder where world is going today ........ Thanks for your response and such a nice information... Happy Mylotting Take Care Ganesh
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
18 Sep 08
Polite people are misunderstood and wrongly taken for their politeness. Being aggressive with people is certainly not a way to make progress in life. What happens when you meet up with someone as or more aggressive than you ? And if you believe what goes around ,comes around then it is bound to drag you down one day.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
18 Sep 08
I believe in GOD more than aggressive poeple .... And I don't consider myself as aggressive I am very polite to all... But yes I agree every aggressive person has more aggressive counterpart. Thanks for your response and such a nice information... Happy Mylotting Take Care Ganesh
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
hi Ganesh! No this is not always true. although there are instances that this might happen. Because polite people are thought to be easily fooled since they are polite. but i still dont believe that aggressiveness is the answer to this. their are still agressive people who are also turned into fools. Because the bottom line is, everyone can be turned into a fool....that is if we allow it to happen. But despite this i also think that through this instances that makes us fool sometimes...we learn something from them. we might not see the lesson at first but we would realize it in the end. so if you are polite..continue being so, because at the end of the day, you would feel satisfied that you have been kind to someone. although they havent returned it.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
18 Sep 08
ohhh good response ...aggressive people are fooled many times ...but I prefer polite people to aggressive .... Thanks for your response and such a nice information... Happy Mylotting Take Care Ganesh