Give and Take system destroy the good relation among frnds.

@mhrmasum (678)
September 18, 2008 8:55am CST
Actually I am suffered by this kind of give and take system of frndship. I describe it very briefly, i have so many frnd. Every year their birthday is come, in their birthday I gift them. They also gift me in my birthday. But when i stopped to gift them for few years they dont gift me even they dont wish me. Their is no headache for gift, just i want to say that they 4get me. There are so many event in my life where give and take system destroys our frndship. just i express one event here.
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@vidhyavini (6112)
• India
18 Sep 08
Its just human nature to expect the same thing that they are doing. Its just nature and that cannot be a mistake. And at the same time, if friendship needs gift exchange to survive, then its not actually friendship. I believe that a person who will stand with us in our happiness and troubles will be our true friends. This gift exchanges are just to make them happy. We can also make them happy without that. Those friends who are expecting just gifts from us and not love are not worth to be our love. Just ignore them. This is only in case of gifts. In showing love everyone will expect back what they give. Thats not wrong. Happy mylotting.
• India
18 Sep 08
Listen then they are not friends they are just casual and you are also not friend but just casual. We can say like that he/she is my known or from some known people. For me a friend is some thing separate, the friend is that with whom you share your sorrows and the pleasures and in a problem you call him and he/she come to your rescue and about the casuals they are in the category of mates and colleagues, just class mates, room mates, office mates or so on. Give and take is the policy all over the universe if give and take is not there the system will collapse.