Dreams about other men

United States
September 18, 2008 3:00pm CST
I love my husband very much, but I have dreams about an ex boyfriend that I had been with for a long time. I have no feelings for this man at all, and I just thought that since I had been with that ex for a long time, that's why I still had dreams about him. I just was wondering if any one had this happen to them and if they have found any way to get rid of the dreams?
10 responses
• United States
18 Sep 08
wow...the same thing happens to me! in fact, i just had a dream about my ex last night! lol we were together 6 years- planned on getting married and all that. i really just think it is normal to have dreams of this nature. i mean, it's not like you can really control what you dream about. i definitely don't think of him all that often, and am very happily married for the last 3 1/2 years. aren't dreams really strange sometimes, though?
• United States
18 Sep 08
That is what happened to me last night I dreamed about my ex, and we were together for 6 years too! Crazy! I don't think about him at all anymore, and I don't resent him or anything. I just dream about him still. I love my husband and hope to dream about him instead.
@rainmark (4307)
27 Sep 08
I remember i had one dream about my ex boyfriend. But it was long time ago. I don't udnerstand why he is on my dreams, so i concluded that maybe i dream of him because we just broke up without any word from me or him, we spitted up because my family don't like him. It's just one of my bad past experiences.
@toni1972 (15)
• United States
25 Sep 08
I don't think it is any big deal. It is just a dream. My husband and I both have dreams about our ex's and we just talk about it and usually laugh about it. I think they will go away if you don't make a big deal about them. Good luck!
22 Sep 08
i think that you have a love with the ex-boy friend.But now you are confused that what will be have option for future. if you really like your Life partner then you realise that Past just imaniary term, but peersent is life achievement.so now you just love with your Husband.
• Philippines
20 Sep 08
Remember that dreams are symbolic in nature. Don't worry so much about dreaming your ex. Your higher self is telling you something important about your past that is represented as a figure of your ex.
@kavinsh (78)
• India
20 Sep 08
hi illfavors even i m not much happy with my husband but i didn't have dreams of my ex boyfriend.sometimes i feel that he could be better than my husband but then i think may he will be worst after marriage. so.............. what god provided me i m satisfied with that.ex life is almost forgotten. as i have two little boys . they give me too much happiness. take care.
• United States
19 Sep 08
Well, I don't have any exes, but I have dreams about celebrities. I don't think it's a big deal at all. It's just a dream.
• India
18 Sep 08
This type of things happen in manay person's life. This feelings is true for both men and women. Both men and women fall in love in a certain period of his/her life. Some love come successfull, some fail. If he/she marries a person other than he/she is in love with, anything is possible. The marriage may bring them happiness or may bring them sorrow. Everything depends on lot (not MyLot, hahaha..I mean luck here). If the couple is happy with each other, then nobody thinks about his/her ex. If the marriage is futile, then the ex starts vising in mind. But in course of time, the problem gets solved. Nobody should think of his/her ex in the conjugal life. This is cheating the spouse.
• United States
18 Sep 08
ok theres my take with all this..you havent been with for a long time but your dreaming about him..thats normal for everyone to do this but in your unconsince state of sleep all things come out. maybe theres something you never resolved with this person or you hate him for something that he has done? i would say just think about somethings and how it was with him and if theres anything then resolve it..Leave the burden at the Cross..
• United States
18 Sep 08
I think as days pass by, these dreams will stop eventually. During the day, when you are awake, try not to think about your ex. This could help avoiding the dreams as dreams usually pertain to our day-to-day activities, thoughts... Hope this was helpful :)