Fast is not the word for it. Insane is more like it.

Maybe if u didn't sleep with her so soon, things might have been a little slower.

Hi Talker, I fully relate to what you are saying here as this has also happened to me! No it wasn't quite as quick as 2 weeks but it wasn't much longer then that either! And STUPID me was too soft at the time and didn't want to hurt his feelings and just let things take their course because I thought oh it won't last too long and he will see that I am a total b*t*h to live with and leave on his own and I won't be hurting his feelings! WELL let me tell you that didn't happen at all it is now nearly 7 years later and he is still here!!!!! And before you ask yes I have sat down twice with this guy and I have told him that I am not in love with him and that I don't want to be with him and his answer to that was .... Well I love you so this will work!!!!! it is like hitting your head up against a brickwall, I mean how could this guy want to live with someone who doesn't love him and he knows this and he says to me all the time "You don't love me do you" ... Oh DUH Anyway sorry the point to my waffling on and on is that GET THE H*LL OUT while you still can before it is too late and you are stuck in relationship that you are not happy in but you can't leave because they make you feel so guilty ...!!!!!

Ack! That -is- fast. The thing is that if this keeps happening consistently, it's not just them that's going too fast. If it's too fast for you (and it should be!)you need to learn how to put the brakes on. Like - be too busy for her to be there every night. Or tell her that things are moving too fast, that you like her but you're not ready for this much closeness yet. I wish you luck!

wow! Do you think that you're possibly sending the signals without realizing it? I know my fiance talked about all these things when we started dating a year and a half ago. But, I think things went a little too fast. We are only living together at the moment. The key may be not to be so open so fast. Don't raise any expectations. Let them know how you feel and what your'e in a relationship for. Careful how you word it, as to not give the wrong impression. Good luck and pm me, if ya want.