What is the craziest you have done to your lover when yo were mad?

China
September 19, 2008 7:25am CST
Hi,everyone, I have a lot of contact with people,so I heard all sorts of stories about people that do craze things in relationships.My friends just found out the guys she was seeing is getting married next weekend.She was so upset that she lit his garbage cans on fire.This was so hilarious,but disturbing at the same time.I think men do things to women just because they are cowards.Is it wrong for a woman to get revenge by destroying some of his property.I can't blame her for what she did. What is the craziest thing that you have done to get back at your lover?
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17 responses
• United States
19 Sep 08
i tried to beat him up.. which is sad since he is 6'6 200lbs and im 5'7 120lbs... pissed me off more when he started laughing that i just gave up and decided to be pissed elsewhere lol
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• United States
20 Sep 08
That's common, you're normal. I mean you're not crazy. Thats cool. Everyone does stuff like that in their life.
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• China
20 Sep 08
Hi, That is right way.Thanks!
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• Philippines
20 Sep 08
Punch his face haha lol, omg I really do that, that's a straight punch, I did that because he told me that I can't hurt him even he hurts me, so I joke him if I can punch him in his face then he said let's try if I can do that! then, it happen! I punch his face!! haha
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• China
20 Sep 08
Hi, It sounds like a joke!Wish you can love each other forever!
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• Indonesia
20 Sep 08
ha ha ha...i been there before.. i think a people whose do that because they don't wanna hurt again.. the crazy thing that i do is i spy on her for 20 hours.. he he he ..i was like a "stupid" detective back there... you know what.. i got her back know..
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• Philippines
20 Sep 08
I don't talk to her at all and just sent her a message asking her if she's tired or not. When she responded "why?", I just told her, because she's been running all over my mind the whole day. I remember one time when we have misunderstandings, she ask, "Do you hate me?". I just told her, "I don't love you enough to hate you that much", then I walk away smiling.
• United States
20 Sep 08
I wouldn't do anything like that but I did get a little upset one time when my husband before we were married, wanted to leave and go back with his ex wife. I pulled his hair and didn't know how hard I was doing it. I was seeing red at the time and had a lock of his hair in my hand. I felt soo bad after that. Poor guy. He really even wasn't going back with her, he was just confused about the divorce he was going through and probably thought it would be better if he wasn't living with me during divorce. He was just scared I guess. So it was a happy ending anyway ha . He could have been a little more explicit why he was leaving me instead of keeping me in the dark and making me assume. I guess I made an you know what out of you know what. I also called the police on him a few times. I live in a small town so I just told the police he was drunk and to come and scare him so I can get some sleep and he will leave me alone. It's pretty funny . Cops are really cool around here.
@CatsandDogs (13964)
• United States
20 Sep 08
LOL Tell your friend that I said "Way to go girl!!" lol I tore up my boyfriends apartment in a huge way!! I found him with another gal the night before but I was too drunk to do anything about it so when he went to work the next day, a friend and I tore his apartment UP Big Time!! He didn't bother me anymore after that!! LOL
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• China
20 Sep 08
You are so fun.Have a lovely day!
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@klaudine (3652)
• Indonesia
19 Sep 08
LOL. I never do something like that actually. The worst thing I've ever done when I was very mad was broke her up. LOL. I think doing something like that wouldn't bring any good for me and my mental development, I think if I just mad and I can't control that anymore, the best thing is to tell them to go. LOL. To be honest, even I can understand what your friend did, I think she just humiliated herself in front of many people. Because by doing that, not only she admitted that she is childish to be able to do something like that, but also she showed people that she liked him that much. If I were her, I would act like there were nothing even people would think I just playing around with that nasty guy. But that's just another opinion I guess
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• China
19 Sep 08
Hi,klaudine, I agree with you!She is childish to do that.It can't get anything by destroying others property!Thanks for your response! All the good luck to you! Sunny
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@jzjqdkd (273)
• China
20 Sep 08
i don't think to do crazy things can get the person you love back,if we love her or him, we want them to live a good life,that is the true love,we may be not together,but the wish in our heart is enough,so let the other have a good memory to finish something.
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@skysuccess (8882)
• Singapore
20 Sep 08
Sorry, I felt that the craziest thing your friend did was to fall in love with a guy who is not in love with her. Lighting up his garbage can is the Stupidest thing to do, as she could have caused more damage to others and to herself if the fire were to be out of control. Properties might have been damaged and lives might be lost here. I just would not stand and consider such acts to be coming of a mature person. No offense here. Anyway, I think this may be the craziest act of my life. My girlfriend when we started dating would never like to hold hands and I have tried to explain that it would be good if I could hold her hand when we cross the road. But she was adamant and felt that it is suitable for kindergartens only. Anyway, I will just respect her wishes and let it by. One day, as usual, I prompted for her to cross seeing that the only oncoming car was like 100m away. I did not realized that she was not by my side as all along I had been watching the oncoming car. It was when I was in the path of that car that I realized it. I must really thank God here, as just at that split of a second, the car accelerated (I just don't know why) and I panicked. I just froze there, which was not normal with me. Then all of a sudden when I thought that I would be the next candidate for General Hospital, I felt her hands grabbing my arms and had us running to the opposite sidewalk. I was just exasperated for words but I was glad that she came to my rescue. From then on, we were holding hands. I suppose she wanted to be my heroine for the rest of my life.
@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Sep 08
Well now, just theoretically, if somebody had broken up with me, and if his new girlfriend and eventually wife, had a website, and if he treated me badly after the breakup, and it was partly due to her jealousy problem, I could see myself telling her and all her online friends some uncomfortable truths about him.
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@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
19 Sep 08
I never revenge on my ex bf's but i remember one time when i broke up with my ex bf before i right away replace him with another person after weeks of break up. Just to let him know that i am not sad of losing him and that i am better off without him. But aside from that i havent done anything worst.
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@TessWhite (3147)
• United States
19 Sep 08
I definitely have a temper, and at times it gets the better of me. I remember many years ago while still married to my ex he made me really mad. I had prepared a dinner that took alot of work, and its one that we had often because he usually enjoyed it. Well that night he came in, saw the meal and said "that again? I'm not eating that again" and went in to watch tv. I was so furious I picked up the pans full of food, walked into the garage and tossed them on the hood of his truck - pans and all. LOL Now, with my current guy, I found a few years ago some racey emails that he and another woman had been sending to each other on MY computer. I discovered it while he was sound asleep. Apparently he had used the web cam in these "conversations" also. SO, I grabbed the camera, cut the cord in two, grabbed a nice tall glass of ice water, walked into the bedroom and threw it in his face as he slept. I told him apparently he needed cooling off. LOL
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@NrgDfenZ (1810)
• Belgium
19 Sep 08
I don't do anything when I am mad :D If I do something I know I will regret it afterwards :p So then it is better to do nothing :D Have a nice day :)
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@DamianC (31)
• United States
19 Sep 08
I haven't done anything completely crazy except using psychological warfare. They had to do something really bad. I used to make them jealous by comparing them to other people and make them feel like they had to compete for me to stay with me.
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@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
19 Sep 08
[i]Hi sunny, wow..that is very scary! I mean how if she burn the house also! ANyway, i know when someone is very upset, she or he can do stupid things once she or he will not vent it out to friends.. In my case, when I am very mad to my husband, I will express it out to him a lot, will talk a lot and then I will leave...Like I will go to our room and will lock myself! I haven't tried doing things which is dangerous..LOL!But, i can't blame that girl also, I wish she had best friend to talk with![/i]
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@minnie_98214 (10573)
• United States
19 Sep 08
Well mine was my first hubby we were going thru a nasty divorce and I was very angry about the things he was saying in the divorce (he lost everything by the way) i wanted to key his truck or something but I couldnt do any actual damage so instead i grabbed some magazines and filled out all those card inserts with his information. The stuff i sent to him and his new girl were stuff for male baldness, loss of bladder control, info on how to tell your family you are gay i sent so much stuff it had to get annoying i saw his table when id pick up the kids. It was filled each day with junk mail. Not to mean but very funny i thought and harmless really.
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• Netherlands
20 Sep 08
lols