big decisions

@mayrose (323)
Philippines
September 19, 2008 7:25am CST
Before i make any decision i always ask my families opinion on things, the negative and positive effects. I also considere about there reactions cause i don't want them to be affected whatever it is that will come. I always assure them that its for my own good and for the families own good also
3 responses
@r0ss1234 (29)
• United States
19 Sep 08
Before i make a desicion i usually will see how it affects me and then my family and than my friends, although it certain instances the order can be switched up as sometime i do things for my firends and family over what i want because it feels better to do that
@mayrose (323)
• Philippines
20 Sep 08
thank you, sometimes friends comes first in certain instances..
• Philippines
19 Sep 08
unlike you, i don't do consultations. i decide on my own, but i make sure that i weigh my choices well so i can assess whether my choice will do me any good.;-)
@mayrose (323)
• Philippines
20 Sep 08
i think your responsible enough to do your own decision.. thank you
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
19 Sep 08
I hate making a big decision in my life. Making big decision always makes me feel depressed. It is not only something that can change my life and my future, but also would influence people around me, and that is why I really stressful when it comes for my time to make any big decision myself. I never ask my parents about the big decisions that I would take, That is because I don't think they would understand. I always have a different principal with them, so that I don't want this to become another fight between me and my parents
@mayrose (323)
• Philippines
19 Sep 08
sooner or later we have to make big decisions, and it will happen there we may hurt someone but its a learning experience... thank you