Would you accept friendship that he is offering?

If he is the father of your children being friendly with him would be a great idea, if not for your, for your own kids sake. I would accept his friendship if we had children together. If not, I think I could do without him in my life.

making friends with your ex husband is still premature. you are still in the process of healing. maybe guilt pushed him to make a move like that but it wont help.. anger or i can say hatred is still in the heart. let days, months or years passed and one day you will just wake up and can see him in his eyes with forgiveness...

I wonder if he is sincere. Could he be trying to take advantage of you somehow? What is his motive? If he is a great guy, I think you should give him another chance, but don't seem too eager to talk to him again. He has to prove himself.

I'm not sure I'm understanding you but I think you're saying you're husband left you for another woman. You two fought and now he wants you two to be friends? If that's what you're saying there is no way in the world I would be friends with a woman who slept with my husband and then wants to fight me over him. If that's the case they can have each other and go find someone else to play with because I am not the one.