right time
By mayrose
@mayrose (323)
Philippines
September 22, 2008 9:49am CST
they say when you reach 30 you have to plan for the next 5 years of having your own family, get married and have kids. Maybe you will encounter those thoughts of questions, did you waste your time hanging around and stuff? For me at 27 im not yet thinking of it right now, to have a family of my own because i know im not yet ready but,... if the right one comes then i am willing to commit and raise my own family.
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4 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
Well all of us have our own life, and decision. What is right for you and will make you happy, and be contented with what you have. Everything just happen you can't tell when I think love and commitment will come into your way, even you avoid it. Their are alot of single now a days who are past 30's it's just what their priorities are I think like their carreers. Some like you are not ready to go for a relationship yet. Well take it slow and just be sure, then having someone just for having a boyfriend and not really love the person. As long as you smile and the world will smile at you, then crying alone at a corner. Have a nice day! God bless!
@AndrewFreyne (6281)
• United Kingdom
22 Sep 08
I'm not really bothered about those serious questions in relation to my own life. I prefer to remain single! I have enjoyed it thus far anyway. Will I ever get married? I'm not so sure. The benefits of having a family I suppose are that you will probably have tremendous pleasure in raising your own children, and obviously there's the love and companionship especially when you reach old age. Even so, being a singleton, this appeals to me a lot. I don't know what will happen over the next few years anyhow, I'm 33 years of age now and I'm not that bothered about those serious questions. Andrew
@SupaSkwirrel (28)
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22 Sep 08
Why should you be so bothered with conventional thinking. So you are 30 and un-married. If you ask me getting married just because you are getting old and not because of the love you feel for your partner is not a good reason to commit to anything. Take your time if you need to, don't rush into anything especially if its something as important as marriage.
