Consequences of love?

Philippines
September 23, 2008 2:32am CST
What are the consequences of love you know? I only know this.. When you'll love someone, prepare to hurt someone. How about yours guys? AHAHA its been a long time since i posted a new thread . Happy posting mylotters
7 responses
@angelia286 (2029)
• Singapore
23 Sep 08
Loving someone is wanting the other party to be happy and not wanting to hurt your other half. Love does not equates to hurt, and neither shall hurt be equated to love. Why would you say that when you love someone, be prepared to hurt someone? I don't understand this at all. I believe that when you love someone, you want the best for other person, you want the other person to be happy and pampered by you. That is what love is all about. Hurt only comes in when one party disappoints the other party time and time again, and could not keep to their promise, that is when hurt will comes in. As long as a relationship is built on trust and faith in each other, hurt will be very minimal in a relationship. More of happiness and blessed feelings will be felt. That would be the consequences of a healthy love relationship. Should you always feel unhappy in a relationship, I think it would be time to move on. That person is not the one for you, I guess.
• Sri Lanka
23 Sep 08
I don't think loving is hurting. But leaving the lover is hurting. That is one of the consequences of love. Other than that when you are into it your other relationships would become less binding. Or else others would loosen their bonds with you. On the other hand if your parents are against your love, that would be a huge consequence to go against your parents.
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@jzjqdkd (273)
• China
24 Sep 08
What I know about love is either separated or married,but for me ,the love seems to hard,loving a girl has totally earn all my love,and when the love wad gone, what left me is just staying in a dark corner,bleeding.I really didn't know i should suffer or get hurt so much,but it is what i deseved,i hurt her,then she left,getting hurt is just proving the fact that i love her so much .
23 Sep 08
Love....Oh my gawd m really upset with it...everything seems to be good when it is new..he used to love the way i speak to him,the way i glaze at him...my smile...the way i speak...but now he is getting irritated with all dis...he wants me to change...All of a sudden he is scared that his parents may not agree for this relationship to go on...All of a sudden he thinks love is so complicated....he needs a break but i dont know wat is stopping him..i love him so much...my love for him as never changed...i hav only 2 people in my life it is him and my mom ofcourse no1 else...i treat him equally to my mom...i giv him the same space...he forced me to get into dis relationship...but nw when m into it...wen m not able to forget or leave him....he's not even concerned....20 to 25 days der is no sign of him...never calls me up...never speaks to me....tries to avoid me...i dont know wat not....i hav always been compromising...i hav always taken his pain as mine...but never gave a chance for him to get tensed or unhappy because of me...he has always been hurting my feelings...but still m not able to forget him or make up my mind to liv widout him...please help me...what do i do...
@JOIEMARVIC (2342)
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
the consequences? you get hurt and you unintentionally hurt them.. you'll get sleepless nights.. pimples.. you challenge yourself everyday to be a better person for him you sometimes,often times,many times,forget about yourself.. your taken for granted.. sometimes,you get dumped
@nengs10 (3189)
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
Well, love can result to good or bad outcomes. It depends on how you deal with love and the person you loved. All relationships are bound to experience ups and downs; thus, the couple should talk sincerely about their problems so as further dilemmas will be avoided.
@ppooja03 (67)
• India
23 Sep 08
well if you love someone...then be prepared for being hurted ...cause every love story ends up with grief and pain.....if i m in love soem one...then i will not definitely hurt him.....cause i will think about him and his love when doing such thing...