What are your thoughts about raising a child that isn't yours?

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I have a one year old son. I was engaged to his father or let's say sperm donor for almost 5 years and when I found out I was pregnant I left him only to take him back when I was 6 months pregnant he said that he wanted to be there for his son but that has never happened. He cheated on me after I took him back and i finally was tired of his lifestyle and him my child was not going to grow up like that. So I left him and was single for almost two years gradyns 15 months now and I have met this guy Chad I love him to death and so does my son. Thing is he's my age he's 22 and he doesnt want to have kids of his own until he's a little closer to 30. I would love to have more one day so I am saying that I dont want any more rght now. But the thing is he doesn't have a problem with gradyn he loves spending time with him and is trying to teach him to catch and throw hes always bringing candy or treats for him and gradyn absolutely adores him. yea I dont normally take gradyn around men that I am dating or talking to becuase in the past i have had issues with men thinking that they were going to be with me and not my son im not sure why they would think that since my son comes frist in everything that i do i love him with all my heart and would never do anything that would hurt or endanger him. so back to chad i think its wondeful that he loves me and my son and he swears that he wants to be with us forever and I totally beleive him but whats it like for a man to walk in and raise a child that isnt his? Ive asked him that question a thousand times and he personally days that it doesnt bother him and that he fell in love with Gradyn the first time that he met him. So whats the low down?