Do you believe that being a second wife is risky?Is it better to stay unmarried

@Jenaisle (3803)
Philippines
September 28, 2008 3:17am CST
Is it worth the risk of getting married to a man who have been married once? There would be great upheaval in the home front with regards to children and relatives. They would all be hostile and defensive . Would you take the risk? or will you stay unmarried to avoid complications later? What do you think? To read more on this topic visit this link: http://www.helium.com/items/1194140-the-challenges-of-being-a-second-wife
4 responses
@Ritchelle (3797)
• Philippines
12 Oct 09
if i am in this situation i would stay unmarried for the troubles you mentioned would be all true 99% of the time. however, not everyone is like me, but if they really love the used to be married man then i would say as long as they already know themselves and are established enough in their own right: physically, mentally, emotionally and financially then i'd say go for it.
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
5 Oct 08
i had never been married but i am a single parent. my husband was married before and has 2 girls. so far we dont have problems with our marriage life :)
• China
29 Sep 08
Surely it's better to stay unmarried. You never worry about him and family. It's risky to remarry unless you both really love and understand and would like to help each other.
• Japan
28 Sep 08
In my case yes. Well me and my partner now are both married once. He had an 18 year old son from his first marriage, me I dont have a child on my first marriage. Our advantage is his son is an adult now and full understand and agree with our relationship. Now we have a two week old son of our own, and his 18 year old son is so excited, now that he have a little brother to look after.