What is most important to you when it comes to choosing a partner?

The perfect mate would show his love for you and your children with every act. He would listen to your thoughts, and even when you are wrong he would hear you out. He would share and express his own ideas in a nice way, even if they contradict yours thoughts.

Well, I'd say he has to be someone who I can snuggle with, y'know. Hug often, stuff like that. Definately sensitive enough. He doesn't have to be the smartest, but not stupid and he can't be really lazy. He has to be fun to just chat with. Be able to keep up with good conersations, political stuff maybe. And he has to like to go out places. Not like my dad who sits on the couch 24/7 in front of the tv and rarely does anything with the family.

I'm a divorcee who has been enjoying her freedom and will probably continue to do so. I joke with my children that when I find a man who is perfect and is ok with the fact that I'm not I'll latch onto him. Of course I'm being facetious.

Hi Sheepie, There is no such thing as a perfect man, but you will someone that you will like so be patient. Tamara

Well the most important qualities I would look for in a partner is a good kind heart and a grate sins of humor I prefer someone who's out going and a good listener and of course I want someone who's independent and a good provider in case we ever have a kids I want him to be able to help me take care of them.

Don't feel u will not get these people. Definitely u will get the same. The thing u are thinking is wrong. There are people of all sorts live int the world, the place where is the question. Be happy