what if you accused someone of doing something..

Egypt
September 30, 2008 7:48pm CST
then you found that you were wrong?! what will you do then? will you just apologize or what will be your action?..also what response you predict from him? do you think he will forgive you or what?!
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11 responses
• India
1 Oct 08
It is a very difficult situation if you accuse someone for something which you later come to know that the person has not done. One must certainly appologise and clarify that the response was based on some wrong informationand hope that youare pardoned.
• Egypt
1 Oct 08
so if you put yourself in this situation would you simply accept the apologize?
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• India
1 Oct 08
I do accept the appology if i am convinced tht it was not that peson's fault but his reaction was based on the feedback he had received. I never like to loose a friend.
• Egypt
2 Oct 08
no one either like to lose a friend or some one he loves..
• United States
1 Oct 08
if i found out that i was later wrong then i do and have apologized before.. if i was wrong i was wrong!! if i wasnt wrong and i am told i was wrong im not going to admit to anything i havent done lol
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• Egypt
2 Oct 08
ohh really?!
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
Yeah i did many times, and absolutely i asked for forgiveness from them and fortunately they forgive me because of my sincerity and i am really sorry for what happened. Eversince i always think many times before i accuse anybody.
• Egypt
2 Oct 08
i hope evry one think before accusing another one.. thanks for your reply ;)
@ibiswas (422)
• India
1 Oct 08
Hi Milanovich, I am extra cautious before I accuse someone. I usually don't accuse someone for some act unless I am very sure and have some proof. I truly believe that words once spoken can never be taken back. So I would not hurt someone unnecessarily. If ever I accused someone for some act they never were responsible for, then I shall apologize to them and hope that they would forgive me for the same.....
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• Egypt
1 Oct 08
hello ibiswas do you think even if he accepted your appology he will forget this event?
@wolveren (1586)
• Cebu, Philippines
1 Oct 08
If I was wrong I would admit it. And come forward with an apology. I don't really care what people think if I do that. Communication is very important. If they make it a bigger problem I don't mind. that would be another chapter. That also depends on what stupendous mistake I made. A small opps can pass. But if it's a huge one. Yeah I guess I'll take the fall. But other than that, that doesn't make me a lily willy. After I have said my piece of apology I don't expect anything in return. If he wants to make it bigger fine by me. Come and get some. hehehe. cheers!!!
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• Egypt
2 Oct 08
so you have no problem at all!
• United States
1 Oct 08
yea i woudl apologize an depending on the situation i would know whetehr they would forgive me or not.
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• Egypt
1 Oct 08
and what if not?
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@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
1 Oct 08
Yes I have done this and I have apologized. It taught me a lesson of making sure of things before accusing anyone again. It is not easy to admit that you are wrong but you have to do it. Yes the person forgave me and made me eat humble pie for a while too but that was better than long term animosity which can come from never apologizing.
• Egypt
1 Oct 08
you are great sharra.. the best thing you did that you learnet something from this lesson..
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@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
1 Oct 08
Oh I always do that with my elder brother. Every time I have something that missing inside my room either money, personal stuffs I always blame it to him. Well, he can't blame me because he was the only person always get my stuff and try to crash in my room. There was this time I was looking for my wrist watch and I can't find it. I confronted him about that and I was freaking out because that was my husband's birthday gift for me. My mom helped me to find it and she found it inside my closet. I felt guilty of all the words came out from my mouth but he can't blame me like what I said.
• Egypt
1 Oct 08
hello jstmarfz.. so do you learned anything from these expermints or you are still accusing him without any eveidence?
@vmksvmks (413)
• Canada
1 Oct 08
It depends on how big this accusation was I would likely not find myself in that position anyhow because i am not one to blame until i have all the facts I suspect he/she would forgive me is i was sincere and it also depends on just how close are relationship was So the jury is out until all the evidence is laid out Good Luck Have a Great day
• Egypt
2 Oct 08
thanks for your words ;)
@amlegend (945)
• Pakistan
1 Oct 08
i will say sorry and bring a bunch of flowers and nice ones too. i will try to not repeat it again. and hopefully he/she will pardon me for it. i did a bad act and now i am sorry and there ain't any point in being shy of it and i got facial expressions as well and they will also help me in my cause.. but heart feelings!!
• Egypt
2 Oct 08
not all the situations can be solved this way.. sometimes it got more complicated that even if you appologize it will not solve the problem..
• Australia
1 Oct 08
Well to start of, i wouldnt accuse someone of something unless i was sure it was true and eather i saw them or i kind of have proof. but if i do accuse someone and i am wrong, it would be humiliating but you just have to apoligize to the person and hope for the best and that the person forgives you. In some cases, you might have to make it up by buying them something bt its best not to seem desperate because he/she might start to use you for their own wishes by making you feel guilty or something...anyways... ~HaPpY MyLoTiNg~
• Egypt
1 Oct 08
ok..but what if you are in the reverse situation and you were accused wrongly..what is your reaction then?! would you only accept the apologize or some money?