One of my friends feels this way....Wat do you think abt it...? Curious to know!

October 1, 2008 10:51am CST
My friend (who is a guy)feels this way. He says that guys always need to have two affairs side by side...or rather it is normal for guys to sleep around even if they are committed to somebody...... I live in South India....and he is from north...... I asked him wat he would feel if his wife sleeps around after marriage? He feels that as long as she has enough time and love for him...thats ok and vice versa....Now if your partner feels this way...what would ur thoughts be...?
2 responses
@thanujad (405)
• Sri Lanka
1 Oct 08
If my partner says something stupid like that I will not think twice to dump him. I feel that he is a womanizer and he does not know what love is. I hope and pray that one day he'll learn a good lesson by a woman. I would like to know how you feel like after he told you something terrible like that? Do you believe him? If yes that means you too does not know what love is.
• India
1 Oct 08
well thanuja...I completely agree with u...I understand my friend's perspective but I cannot agree with him even a bit.......My boyfrnd is my posession and no one else's...I also need to be wary of him as I know him only fr a couple of months;-) Nice reply
@chaska (170)
• United States
1 Oct 08
A marriage is between 2 people and not 3 or 4. If my husband felt this way I would let him find someone else that felt the same way he did. I would not put up with it there are too many risks involved with having affairs.