eye teasing one of common problems being encountered y girls these days

India
October 2, 2008 2:11am CST
eye teasing means people keep on staring you whe n you wlakon the road wither in classromm or private or public places this is verry bad and makes you feel very bad and you alos get afeelin of inferiority complex a why are they seeing you in this bad manner how do you handel this tyoe of thing please tell because i am feeling very nverous about this thin
8 responses
@deathvans (301)
• Philippines
2 Oct 08
hmmn.. for me, just don't mind.. just walk straight, just like you have seen nothing.. that's the key.. Or, avoid those people who stare you.. If it is like they want to get you naked or something, or even worst, maybe killing you by staring. LOL.. haha.. Just be yourself, that's why we have our own rules, within ourselves.. Have a nice day, Happy mylotting.. ^_^
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• India
2 Oct 08
thanks but this does not stops from teasing me any othe concrete action which culd be taken
• India
2 Oct 08
i been a guy dnt face such problems.... but unless and until these eve teasers are far away from you dnt give a dam yaar..... infact u should feel that u have it in you that u are capable of turning heads....infacts girls like you are a hot topic of discussion amongst guys.... so enjoy the attention....
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• India
2 Oct 08
me beign a guy dnt face such problems.... the point is, till these guys are away from u, u dnt need to give a dam yaa.... infact u should take it in a positive way, that u have it in you which makes heads turn around..so, be proud.... infact girls like u, wen walking pass a guys group (apllies to me also) become a hot topic of discussion....;)..
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@rocker21 (2720)
• India
2 Oct 08
Hi Nutan theres nothing to get nervous, Every person who teases has a motive behind it!, People tease girls to get the girls come to them and talk to them and so on! so the best way is to not fulfil their motive! now how to do the EYE TEASING you 've shared! that happened with my gf when she attented her class a guy stared at her keeps on staring at her! Well she has her own way of dealing things LOL i know, she just went and poked his eyes! altough you cant do such an act to everyone and make all the world go blind! All you can do is Ignore them if the thing is only upto staring, if something more happens then be like my gf, kick the butt!
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• India
2 Oct 08
ur gf rocks dude....!!wat a way to counter...awesome...
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@rocker21 (2720)
• India
2 Oct 08
ehehe yeah i know! thanks
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• India
2 Oct 08
k i will try and do that
@MH4444 (2162)
• United States
2 Oct 08
Well, the person that is doing that may like you, or be be jealous of you. It all depends on the situation. If it's a mal-intent then you have to realize that they are making themselves look ridiculous. If you want to be a smart allec tell them something like this: "jealous much?" They will probably say no; but you have already caught them off guard by then. If they insult you further say something about their immaturity level. Be better than they are. Don't stoop to the ignorant behavior. You're better than that right?
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• India
2 Oct 08
k i think you have got point
2 Oct 08
Hi nutanjain, They are looking at you are beautiful and thy like what they see, boys been loolikg at girls from the year dot and the same applies to girls looking at boys, don't be nervous, its part of life and you are a pretty young lady. Tamara
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• India
2 Oct 08
k thanks and happy mylotting
@checapricorn (16076)
• United States
2 Oct 08
H[i]i nutan, When I was younger, when guys will stare at me, I will be very shy and feel like I am floating in the street I am walking...but after a year or two, I learned to stare them back and when you do, they will stop it! SOme maybe just needed an attention and wanted you to look at them..LOL! Some are attracted to you and once you will look at them, they will smile! And for some, maybe they are just criticizing the way we walk or whatever! LOL![/i]
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• India
2 Oct 08
you guys look like total experts inthis type of things
@msedge (4020)
• United States
21 Dec 08
It can't be prevented that there are some people that would stare at you.We all do.I don't mind it.There might be something on us that they like and love seing, thats always been my reason.I never think of negative reason for it.
@deathvans (301)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Oh my, is that really your pic? wow! your HOT.. As in totally HOT.. LOL.. Even if I were that guy, I can't stop staring, if you're looking like that.. Damn.. Your beautiful.. No disrespect.. But you truly are gorgeous.. Hehe.. ^_^ Have a nice day.. ^_^ ahm? What's your name again? LOL..^_~
@katkat (2379)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
I think eye teasing should be considered as harassment. It’s disturbing and scary to be stared at by a completely strangers especially if it makes you feel uncomfortable. I have experienced to be stared at by a complete drunk stranger at a bus and it does scare me a lot. It’s annoying to be stared at; sometimes I want to confront the person.