Why children forget the sacrifice of their parents just for t

India
October 2, 2008 10:10am CST
In this modern society we are seeing in many families children are ill treating their parents.Parents sacrifice so many things for their child.Do u actually believe that parents make mistakes bringing up their children?I mean big mistakes that can affect the rest of your lives?If no,do u believe that parents can forgive their children for anything yet the opposite doesn't happen ? One last thing,do u think that GOD will punish the persons who ill treat parents in any manner as a result of their mistakes ,for their love and do u think this is fair ?
4 responses
@amlegend (945)
• Pakistan
2 Oct 08
alas on such children who forget the difficulties with which their parents raised them up and the same will happen to them in future. and yes it is in some sort a mistake of the parents as well, they should have raised them in such environment that would have give them ethical values..."Your children need your presence more than your presents."
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@thanujad (405)
• Sri Lanka
3 Oct 08
In our country that happens very rarely. The reason may be because the culture we have here. Most of the parents show their love to kids in different ways and the child feels it. Not like most of the countries we don't leave the house to live seperatly until we get married. Our parents will not ask us to earn after finishing our studdies. It's up to us. Even if we finds a job or not it does not matter to our parents. They will look after us until we get married. So most of us will look after our aged parents with love and care. But there are homes for the aged. That means there are some people who are least bothered to look after their parents. I have spoken to many elders who are staying in those places and most of them have gone through very hard times to bring up their children and those children have become Doctors, Engineers, Lawyers etc. But later these idiots feels that they do not have the time for them. But these loving and carering parents are not angry with them but would love to see them often which is not happening. I think those children should be ashamed of themselves. The only thing that they do not realize is that one day their children too will do the same thing to them.
• India
2 Oct 08
Children learn most of what they know from their parents. If they see their parents being insulting to their parents, they take it that that is how they have to behave with their parents when they grow up. If you want to be treated properly by your children, learn to treat your parents with respect and care.
@deserve40 (1605)
• India
2 Oct 08
It is really very sad thing that the children forget the sacrifices of their parents. Perhaps it is the time for the parents to understand that they cannot expect that their children will always take care of them. Perhaps there is some problem in the way they are brought up. Many a times we hear the parents saying that we have done this much for you and you are not bothered about us... Now did the parents do all the things just in expectation that their children will take very good care of them or it was just out of their love for their children?