What happens after infidelity?
By Paulyn Davis
@paulsy (1263)
Philippines
October 2, 2008 12:18pm CST
In my opinion being unfaithful in a relationsip can never be justified. I believe that if you love someone, love him/her alone. And if you fall for someone else, make that firm decision to choose who you really want to be with.
But situations like these do happen in some relationships. Some may try to hide, but in the end, the partner eventually finds out. Have you ever experienced unfaithful in your relationship? Or do you know anyone who has been unfaithful in their relationship? Was there remorse, or change after everything has happened? Or was there that tendency to do it over and over again?
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3 responses
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
30 May 09
Hello paulsy,
It is very hard when it has something to do with your heart. Some people can accept the painful truth but most of us can't. I don't have any experiences in this situation but I have a friend who has been cheated over and over again and yet, he still can't let go his wife. He keeps thinking that one day, sooner or later, the wife will realize what's wrong, feels remorse and will come back to him. I don't even understand why he can't leave a wife who has so many dark secrets even before they're married. I pity him but I feel that he knows the best for his life.
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
Yep, I agree with you in saying that if you love someone, you should love him or her alone. But if ever you no longer feel in-love with him or her, you should let her or him go. And don't cheat. For it is so painful for her or him.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
10 Oct 08
as the saying goes...once done always repeated.talks true of reality that once a person do it he/she will do it again in the future.we just cant make a person change if he/she is already like that.the only thing we can do is to warn them not to do it again.
