When was the last time you had a good cry?...................................

United States
October 3, 2008 10:44am CST
The last time I had a good cry was a couple of weeks ago over my oldest son because our relationship is not where I want it and he is angry at a lot of things. Crying is good for the soul you know. I tend to feel better after having a good cry. Sometimes I try to fight it but it's like my body just says, go ahead Linda........just cry. So when was your last time and why. Please share whether it was for a happy reason or sad. Have a good day and God Bless!
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@ellie333 (21016)
3 Oct 08
Hi Linda, The last time I really cried was Wednesday and yesterday as I had to make the decision to leave a job I love for the sake of my son and although my son comes first felt guilty as I have left them short staffed and also one of the other staff members started crying over me leaving which set me off and yesterday I was just tired and drained and trying to work ou the finances of it all and how we were really going to manage but already my son is much happier and came running out of school today to meet me with a smile instead of a frown so that makes all the difference in the world eh! Mums and their sons, I am sure like you I wil have more tears over him. Huggles. Ellie :D
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@ellie333 (21016)
3 Oct 08
Hi Linda, I am fin, I hope you are okay too. All we can do as mums is our best eh. Huggles. Ellie :D
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• United States
3 Oct 08
That's all we can do ellie because I didn't get the book on how to be a perfect mom and neither did any other mom. We just have to leave things in God's hands.
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• United States
3 Oct 08
Hi ellie. How are you feeling. I tell you, parenting and life in general is so tough at times. But I know the smile on your son's face just made your day. We want our children to be happy and sometimes we can do it and sometimes we can't. Yes ellie, there will be more tears but you are a strong woman and therefore will be o.k.
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@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
I actually cried lastnight when i was hugging my hubby. I got too serious while talking about a personal topic and start crying without him knowing lol. The light was off so it is hard for him to tell that i was crying. I am an emotional person so i easily cry when i talk about something touching or something that really hurts me.
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• United States
3 Oct 08
I can be very emotional as well belk89. Thank you so much for responding and have a good weekend!
• Philippines
4 Oct 08
goog girl ^_^
• Philippines
4 Oct 08
Just last Tuesday, I found out I am not allowed to go back to my hometown because I will be an embarrassment to my family so they will allow me to move back there 3-5 years from now. Well, it hurts so much even if I kinda expected it. I mean, i was hoping people will be forgiving and that they will welcome me back because the year is ending anyway and it's time for a new beginning. But well, it was hope against hope. I cried in my room. I let everything out, just let it flow. But I felt better after shedding all my tears, at least I let it all out...
• United States
6 Oct 08
Well I am sorry to hear that. It must be something not being able to go back to your own country. What happened? Well I do wish you the best and may God Bless you!
@yenwie84 (1344)
• Malaysia
4 Oct 08
I don't remember when was the last time I had a good cry. Lol. I think it's good thing for not had a cry so far. But I always pretend to cry in front of my boyfriend just to crave more cares from him. Lol. Sometimes when he is denying what I am saying then I will just pretend to cry and frighten him.
• United States
6 Oct 08
Well you are right, it is a wonderful thing that you had no reason to cry. Sounds like your life is good. Whatever your doing, keep it up and God Bless!
• United States
6 Oct 08
The last time i had a good cry was ten minutes ago before i came on the computer ive been crying constantly this past year since my Mum was diagnosed with cancer then she lost the fight in July and my heart is breaking so much all i ever seem to do is cry, sometimes it makes me feel better.
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• United States
6 Oct 08
I am sorry to hear about your loss frafitz and it's understandible that you will still be crying. They say that time heals all wounds but the time depends on the person on how long they mourn. May God be with you.
• Philippines
4 Oct 08
The last time I had a good cry was when I gave birth to my son, Jakob Andrei. I was overjoyed when I first heard him crying. I realized that when I decided to continue my pregnancy inspite of my problems was the best decision I ever made. I am so happy to see my little baby opens his eyes and to hear him breathing. The tears was not because giving birth is painful but it was tears of joy. I can't wait for him to grow up.
• United States
6 Oct 08
That is wonderful iamBianca and don't rush for him to grow. It's different when they're bigger but God bless you and thanks for responding.
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
i think the last time that i have a good cry was last week. actually i was on a deep prayer and while i was praying i just realized that my tears are getting out of my eyes and i was really crying felling God's presence and assurance while i was in prayer. it happens with me from time to time. :)
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@lanlan011 (701)
• United States
4 Oct 08
I think i cry all the time. I am a very sensitive person, or so Ive heard. I cant help. Even the littlest things can bring a tear streaming down my cheek. I cant remember the last time I had a good hard cry but i know it wasnt too long ago.
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@rowe0525 (677)
• China
4 Oct 08
yeah ,,if you want to cry ,just to cry ,,,do not care about anything ,, after ,,you will forget this thing and you will look happy and lovely,,it is said that cry do good to our healthy,so if i have something upset,i will cry and cry ,finally ,i will forget it ,and i will be happy from then on
@greyy21 (181)
• Ireland
3 Oct 08
We did meditation in a therapy thing today. I think a hated it so much i cried xD i dont know why but when you have to close your eyes and make yourself be somewhere it makes me feel so trapped and i just want to run away. I dont want to be trapped, EXPECIALLY in my head.. It's meant to be that you can go anywhere during that time so i dont know why it feels like the opposite. There were other people that were crying aswell, but cause there was sad music and we were meant to "let out our sorrow" and all that.. yeah..
@slot100 (546)
• Hungary
3 Oct 08
Well that's an easy one..it was on 17 september. I have been crying almost all day long, and stay almost the whole day outside under an big walnut tree, just so I could be alone. This because, my first love ever (and I still do love her) has been murdered by the age of 16 on the 17th of Septemer, 2003. This ofcourse was a big impact on me, and it still feels like that. (great song for me as well, wake me up when september ends of green day..fits totally) It always feels terrible that day, and I feel like I can't stop crying, until I go to bed and fall crying asleep. (seriously) My recent fiancé knows about this and she tries to support me. That's a good thing that she leaves me alone on that day, because that's just what I want. Luckily, I feel always better when October starts. I don't know why but it makes me some kind of comfortable on some way..Anyway, September is my crying month, and 17th of september was ofcourse a 'great' cry. I was able to get all the emotions out of me luckily.
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• United States
6 Oct 08
Slot100 it seems as if you truly loved this girl and you are still mourning her loss. The first love is always the strongest one I believe. Well I am glad you were able to release those tears. Take care!
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
4 Oct 08
This may sound funny but the last time i cried was because of an anime show i was watching.It is a boxing anime,Ippo Macounochi.(i hope that spells right).My eyes went crying aftre watching hiis last match.He was after the All Japan Rookie Champion.And he won!What made me cry was how he was so happy because of his victory.I also cried when the friends of his oppenent(who were children)cried over the defeat of their idol.If ever you would bump into the anime,try watching it.You will learn a lot
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@amerie86 (148)
4 Oct 08
On Monday or Tuesday this week, things were getting on top with me with money and stress and family life so the tears started falling when I was listening to some piano music but I felt so much better for getting them out, I needed to.
@mojcica (1511)
• Slovenia
3 Oct 08
My last cry had nothing to do with me being sad or feeling bad in any way. But it was plain fear and panic. I was in the car when the ice rain started, it was a size of an egg, so you can imagine. There were literally ice-eggs falling from the sky :( I was sooo scared and the thunder storm was horrible. I cried like a little baby praying it would stop soon, to me it felt like it was going on for hours not just a few minutes.
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• United States
3 Oct 08
I can only imagine mojcica. One evening it was thundering and lightnening really bad. I woke up to cover up my son and then all of a sudden.............BOOM!! I ran to my mother's room and started crying. Now mind you, I was 24 at the time. I mean, it scared the beejeezies out of me. Take care and have a good weekend!