I find it easy to help others but I cannot help myselves!!

@bsa861 (339)
India
October 4, 2008 9:22am CST
I often feel it is easy to help others, but I also feel they did not help me when I require them !! Is it sin to expect a favor back ?? Does this feeling ever die ?? I feel is some thing wrong with me? I cannot help myself from thinking that they will help me when I need them !! What do you think people does this ever happened to you ? Post your views thanks and happy My Lotting !! Hope you enjoy my discussion !!
3 responses
@ANTIQUELADY (36471)
• United States
4 Oct 08
i have one thing to say "what goes around comes around".
@bsa861 (339)
• India
4 Oct 08
Nice man you have put in a single sentence !! but I don't think it really happens that way !! coz you often end up helping people who doesn't even care about you !! As far as I am concerned we should help people only who cares for us !!
@ANTIQUELADY (36471)
• United States
5 Oct 08
i think u should help anyone u see that neds help. you never know when u might need help from a stranger or whoever.
• India
4 Oct 08
hi..it happens with me often.I am very good in helping others.My friends and my family members always ask for my advice.They have proved to be useful for them,so they alwas turn to me for a last chance.But unfortunately when it is my turn,its really upsetting.I cant rely on others advice nor can i think on my own for asolution.This is so irritating someimes.And most of the times there isno piece of good advice..such a helplessness..
@bsa861 (339)
• India
4 Oct 08
I think its just human nature to be a bit selfish !! But thinking before helping people doesn't really works with me !! I just do and later on when they don't do the same, I really get sad !!
• Philippines
4 Oct 08
Hi there bsa861! I think that it is human nature to help others who are in need. There are times when we find it easier to help other people than we can actually help ourselves. When we do favors for other people, we should not expect anything in return. But you see, that is but normal at certain times. But this should not be our basis for helping other people. If we are sincere in helping other people, we should not expect anything in return. Well, there are times when I feel that there are people who are not fair. You are always around when they need you but not when you need them. Sad but true...
@bsa861 (339)
• India
4 Oct 08
Ya I try to resist this feeling but it always comes back, I really burst in situations !! May be I have to control myself and keep a cool and calm mind !!