Would you rather be love or be in love?

Philippines
October 7, 2008 3:27am CST
I would rather be love, I prefer being love by people. I mean I love being appreciated for who I am. How about you?
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7 responses
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
I just want to be selfish now, so I would rather be love. I'm in a relationship where I give too much and received too little, though i believe that loving someone should be unconditional, but it get so tiring sometime and I'm way too tired at this moment.
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
I know how it feels, yes its true its tiring and there will come a point where you ask yourself " Is it worth it?". However there was a point in my life where I realized God wants me to love these peple unconditionally, and sometimes I think that its my purpose in life.
• Philippines
11 Oct 08
I guess you're right :) to be able to love in unconditionally, don't expect too much.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
I'd rather be in love. I've been through a lot of failed relationships and i'm starting to feel numb. I just won't stop loving because somehow there may be someone willing to love me back x times the number of times i have loved before.
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
That's sad M. I sincerely hope you'll find her someday (but let me say you've found her actually, you just let her go ).
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
How lucky those people around you. You give love to them without expecting any in return
@shell94 (990)
• Canada
7 Oct 08
I too would rather feel the warmthe and affection of being loved. There is no better feeling in the world. Loving someone else can be a very hard thing especially when the feelings are not returned. Nothing hurts worse in my eyes.
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
That is so true. It hurts whem you love someone however you will not get anything in return
@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
I rather be loved by my partner.Probably I got used to all my relationships in the past that I was treated really really special that I felt I was a princess.I was such a spoiled girlfriend from my ex's and now I don't get that much but I am practicing the equality in the relationship right now.So what you see is what you get.Just a mirror image.
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
Just like you, I want to be appreciated by other people. As long as you are aware that balance is important in a relationship, you're good to go. Anyways being in love and being loved is one of the greatest thing that can happen in our life
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 08
Giving is much better than Receiving, so i prefer loving rather than being loved ...
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
Its like one of the verses in Bible, Its better to give, because when you give a lot the more you receive.
@joytang (43)
• Singapore
7 Oct 08
being loved by people is better then u love people. u will feel more fortunate that way :)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
Just what i thought
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
I'd rather feel both. I believe that Love is a give and take process, and it will only work out if they both love each other.