Will you choose a love partner that smoke???

@snpyvin (1518)
Malaysia
October 8, 2008 8:03am CST
I don't know this myself but i think it would be ok for my partner to smokes but i don't wanna a addicted smoker maybe for some occasion she smoke. How about you? would you find your partner that smokes to be in a relationship???or do you even care about it??
7 responses
@littleowl (7157)
8 Oct 08
I am a smoker so it doesn't worry me if my partner wmokes-my ex husband was a none smoker but he let me smoke as long as it was in the kitchen...littleowl
@littleowl (7157)
10 Oct 08
I started when I was about 13 just to be 'big' and mix with the older people then I met my husban at 21 we were married by the time I was 22 he allowed me to smoke although he wasn't a smoker, I stopped for 14 years then but then got divorced and was in an abusive relationship and started again in all it must be about 20 yrs I have been smoking now...littleowl
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 08
Ok. Hope you enjoy your life to fullest.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
Lols. How long have you been smokings??
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
8 Oct 08
when i was still single, i had always told myself not to be involved with someone who smokes coz i hate smoking too much. i think it's a waste of money puffing smoke. anyways, i end up living with someone who not only drink but smoke. thank gawd i'm so over him. my husband doesn;t smoke now but he has skoal. i dont like it but i dont mind it either. it's the spitting that i dont like now LOL
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
Ya it always happens like that.When we say we don't want a girl that will argue alot with us then finally we ended marry this kind of girls. I wonder why things always turn the other way round like your husband lols.
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
11 Oct 08
i guess it applies to us about the saying "we always dont get what we want" lol then learn to embrace it
@shell94 (990)
• Canada
8 Oct 08
For me a partner being a smoker id totally fine. I am a smoker as well. People are allowed their habits in life and can make their own choices as well.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
Ya you life you own way but do care about people feelings sometimes ok?? as some might don't like. How long have you been smoking??
8 Oct 08
Hi snpyvin, i won't realy care as I am a smoker myself and my husband don't smoke, he doesen't me smoking but when met me I was smoking, so he can't complain. Tamara
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
Wow. Just know that you smokes. How long have you been smoking.?
@zola10 (49)
• Ukraine
8 Oct 08
yap i will choose one that smokes. once the love is there i will.there must be a reason why she smokes, do all i can to find out why she smokes and a her love do all i can to stop her, may be from a park a day to half a park and on.if nothing comes out of my plan for her i will leave
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
I agreed with your action. Thanks for response over here.
@alankor (478)
• Singapore
11 Oct 08
for me,i do not want a love partner that smokes.frankly,i do not like smokers because i hate smoking.it is just a waste of money and only bring harms to your body.if i found out that my partner does smokes,i would advise her to quit.if she does not,i guess it is time to end it.whats the point being together if we do not agree mutually.please stop smoking to those out there.think of the harm it does to your loved ones!
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 08
Thanks for your advice. i am sure they will know the care you gave them.
• India
8 Oct 08
i'll never do this. because this is harmful for herr and him also... i'll say also that u could not kidd him or her if you really love the person because if you will do this then u'll be having a bad smell of smoke..
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
Ok thanks for responding over here.