relationship with gayman...

@Aniakim (351)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
October 12, 2008 8:39am CST
i have nothing against gaymen, i adore them, their fun to be with and their very talented. i just have this cousin who got engaged last month. her fiancee actually just came home from his work abroad to formally ask my cousin's hand in marriage. unfortunately two weeks after their engagement she found out that her fiancee has a relationship with a gayman. she found out through a text message she had read on her fiancee's mobile phone. the fiancee denied it saying that they were just friends. what was alarming about it was that the text message the gayman sent said that he was the one who paid for the fiancee's travel expenses and that the gayman was already fed up with my cousin's fiancee's lies he wants to end things between them. if you were my cousin, what would you do about this? would you go on marrying this kind of guy who can't at least shed all the skeletons in his closet?
2 responses
• Philippines
13 Oct 08
I believe it would surely be best if they will both talk... a serious heart to heart talk. Just the two of them, and they must really talk about the issue. If your cousin truly love him and the gayman love your cousin the same way, then I guess there should be no questions at all, they just have to accept it. But the thing is, relationship would only work once there is trust and honesty, so I hope they would have those things in their relationship. There`s is really nothing wrong with having relationship with a gayman... for as long as they discuss the matter and they solves the issues.
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
12 Oct 08
honestly i wouldn't wanna get married if that's my situation. if there's been lies for that long, what more after marriage? everyone deserves to have a happy married life. i think it's better for everyone to just move on