What do you guys think?

my opinion on this one is that parents should respect the feelings of their children, as a daughter this is my opinion. yes, u are our parents and you know more things than us but what about us? how can we know or how can we mature if we dont explore things such as this. maybe as a parent you would just seat and talk on this matters with your children and tell them the consequences of those things let them understand things first and then let them decide what they think is the right thing to do. we, as your children all we need is your trust. we have our own minds already to decide. unless if your child is a minor. hehe, cheers!!

I think you should speak to your son/daughter whoever it is. There should not be any difference between boy or girl. You should treat both of them same. You should not force your children on anything you should try to explain them make them understand what are the consequences which we may have to face if they are in a relationship with a different religion or caste. But I think you should not give importance to that now you should make them understand that it is wrong to have a relationship in a teenage. Thats what you can do and try to do it in a very friendly manner instead of trying to force them.

I see a lot of discrimination and differntial treatment on Mylot and do not understand why we should treat boys and girls differently. You should not force your children to do anything that they are not comfortable with. I think you need to talk to your daughter and discuss what is happening but it should be up to her to decide when she is ready for a relationship. Otherwise she will not feel able to discuss this with you and could do all kinds of things in secret. If you have brought her up properly then she will be able and ready to make ehr own decisions at the right time and should not be forced.