Are you in love?

India
October 14, 2008 10:15am CST
this question seems to be simple for many n hard for others??so think nicely n answer..are u really in love or its just attraction?love is a very strong feeling which takes a lot of time to be developed...one must have faith in other to fall in love...so peeps answer me
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• India
14 Oct 08
I do I have a genuine love for my parents and people around me. If you refer to the other love which we feel for our soul-mate then SORRY I don't have any experience in it. Just waiting for the right time to find the right person!! If I spot him no then looking back!!
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@psspurgeon1 (1109)
• United States
14 Oct 08
The thing with being in love is... it is not always a strong emotion or feeling. Sometimes it is just tolerating the other person and knowing that you won't always feel like you do today. I am in love with my husband but I definitly don't like him sometimes. I don't feel mushy toward him or want to be cuddled by him sometimes. But the thing for me is, I have loved him for nine years and even though I feel negatively towards him at times, the feelings always return and I could not imagine living a day of my life or raising our children without him. He is very important to me in every aspect of my life. I think love is just knowing that this is the person you want to be with regardless of the bad times. All to often ppl give up when that honeymoon feeling goes away without realizing that that feeling isn't meant to be there every single day. That it's ok to feel yucky about the other person sometimes. That true love is staying after that honeymoon feeling is long gone and you still can't live without that person...
• India
14 Oct 08
hmmm u r true...in marriage life one face many ups n downs but still the true love binds them together!!!gud luck for ur life!!
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• India
31 Jan 10
I m in love... just totally n madly in love. Love is that strong feeling that covers up every negative thing u dislike about your partner and still give u the want to live with him/her for the entire life. People differ. everyone has a different character n it is hard for 2 persons to adjust unless they have some good bond between them n tats love. I love him n I pray that i be able to spent my entire life with him. It gives me happiness to be a part in his life, in his good n bad times, to support him all time n make him happy. yeah i strongly love him.
• Nigeria
15 Oct 08
you have to know the difference between infatuation, attraction and love and when you fall in love, how do you stay in love? you ned to hold all thses in mind, because falling in love is easy, but staying in love is the hard part.. the good news is many do not know they can actually attract the person the love and live the life of their dreams... i was once like that, but right now i am living in paradise...well if ound help here www.get-the-right-spouse.blogspot.com
• Pakistan
15 Oct 08
aaaaaahhhhhh yar dont touch my love wires heheheh the reality is that , that i m in love from my birth cos when i see her i just realized that i know her from very past and i know about her more then herself . so i think it is the love that it change ur value in ur own eyes and u believe on every that thing which is just imaging so whats ur idea about my LOVE
@cutleave (45)
• Thailand
14 Oct 08
i am in love i am really in love i cannot live without him, i cannot even think my life without him but because of family problem sometime i just feel that i never want to feel i really love him, i can die for him i can do anything for him anything anything (i mean everything)...... i don't want to lose him we are trying harder to be together, as i think if you are in love you have to suffer and tolerate problems i am just making my self stronger to fight for my love!!!!!!
• Canada
14 Oct 08
Well I can tell you I didn't know what love was until I met my husband. I always thought I was until I met him. It is the hardest thing in the world to explain to anyone who has never felt it before. It is overwelming at times, but sometimes it is just there and you know it but you don't always have to say it or have it said to you when you are in the type of relationship that me and my hubby have you just have a comfotable easy trustful faithful relationship...so yes I am in love and I have never been happier....and it is not newly wed love, We have been married for 6 years...which I know is still early, and we have been together for 10.