I am in love wtih a girl. How to tell her that I love her?

@ajithlal (14716)
India
October 16, 2008 12:17pm CST
How to tell a girl that I love her very much? How to tell her without being getting hurt or without losing friendship? Should I take the risk of telling her about my love?
8 responses
@CatEyes (2448)
• United States
24 Oct 08
It depends one numerous things. If you are just friends or dating and if she is dating someone else. If she is dating someone else, I would tread carfully. If it is the others then it would just depend on you and how much you love her. There so many different types of love that sometimes it is not worth losing you friend over just to get something off your chest. Is it a lasting love, have you loved her long, can you see yourself being with her "forver"? If so, I would certainly do it and now!
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• Philippines
17 Oct 08
Telling someone that you love him/her is the best thing you can have... you don't have to rush things if you think you or her is not prepared for it... take it slow but let your actions speak louder than what you will tell her...
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• Philippines
17 Oct 08
Take a deep breath, relax and tell her directly that you love her, time is running, don't be afraid, a good relationship starts in good friendship, maybe you're just afraid that she might think that you're taking advantage on you friendship, how will you know if you don't tell her.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
17 Oct 08
anyway you have to tell her. now if you do not tell her, how she would know about your feelings. there are chances that she may approve or she may reject. but also rejeting always do not mean end of friendship.
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@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
16 Oct 08
if you really love her then you might as well take the risk. better to take the opportunity of telling her what you really feel about her than not having a single chance to let her know and it's gonna be late. you might not have a chance to tell her about it at all.
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• Pakistan
17 Oct 08
hi friend i think just say the truth to her it well benefit You as well her , if their is any reason she well tell you clearly. and i think that if she is a wise friend she well never break friendship with U , cos friendship is based on truth . and if you didn't told her it cause you and Ur friendship also , because she realize that you have friendship with her just for that , that you love her then i think she must dis heart and that is thing that you well never want.............. Prince Sad
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@geekyjock (371)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
I think first thing first, action! Do everything to let her feel that you love her. Maybe this won't exactly make you tell her exactly that you love her, but it is definitely a first step on telling her the "magic words". Take it slow I know you can do it without sacrificing your friendship.
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@blue60 (29)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
If you love her tell her. you gain nothing from not saying something, one thing I would recommend if she has a Husband/Boyfriend don't say anything it will just make things award for her and you. But if she's single than tell her how you feel, take her out for coffee or something, then tell her something along the lines of "I Have liked you for a long time and if you fell the same I would like to take you out on a date" the worst she can say is no but if you never ask you will never know.
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