Love or what?

United States
October 17, 2008 7:31pm CST
Ok I had, HAD this girlfriend when I was in high school for like half of the year. We went to prom yada yada ok lets fastforward. So we admit our love and then she starts to distance herself? Was she scared? Was she just confused and not sure what to do? So I try to go up to her and you know am like, " WHats wrong?" Well of course a female( no offense ladies) wants to hear a males emotions but wont talk about their own, so she says shes fine and stuff.Now, her sister never really liked me but we could honestly care less about her. I think her sister soemhow someway convinced her that I wasn't worth it or something, because she broke up with me when I started college last year, and I had to move away to do that. So then I come back to my hometown( where she is still currently living) She wants to have another shot so of course iim like , " Sure" because hey I do love her, and proud of it. Then she breaks up with me and starts to distance again, however thsi tiem we keep it in secret so taht way her sister never finds out. So...does she love me or what?
2 responses
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
18 Oct 08
i dont get it. if she really loves you...she should fight for your love and not hide it from anyone especially her sister. what if her sister finds out that she's back to you....will she keep her distance again? how many times will she do this to you? how many times will you let her do this ?
• United States
18 Oct 08
yes, but se is like my first actual girlfriend which makes it like me have the "first girlfriend forever complex"
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@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
20 Oct 08
oh ok. i dunno what else to say. you just have to think about your situation with her. if you can handle it being kept as a secret....then do whatever works for you :) best of luck for the both of you
@yuna15 (2707)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
The girl is obviously confused about her feelings towards you. She also can't fight for you because a family member doesn't approve of you. Sadly it's difficult to maintain a relationship if one your family members disagrees.
• United States
18 Oct 08
yea i understand that factor, that is why I allowed her in the begining to keep her distance somewhat, I thought she could talk it out with her sister or something. I also have that " first girlfriend forever complex" that most guys go thru, so kinda hard to let go of memories that just dont want to go
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@yuna15 (2707)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
Don't worry you'll get through it. If she truly is for you, she'll come no matter how long it will take. If not, then somebody else deserves you.