October 17, 2008 9:21pm CST
hey everyone how are you i'm 19 years old and i just got married 3 weeks ago and my husband and I have been tryingt o look up adoption items for months now but eveyrone is saying were too young but if a birth mother is having children at 14 why can't someone who wants a baby and can take care of it withevery love in my power thna i don't see the probelm i don't have thousands of dollars for a adoption lawyer so does anyone have any advice to offer me i would really appreciate it
19 Oct 08
19 years old is quite a young age to be a mother. I suggest to you and your husband to think things through and asks for help and advice from experienced couples that were married at young age like you. Not that I'm against you being a mother, but becoming parents requires you to hold such a big responsibility not only giving love and affection but also the child's future is in your hands. You will have less time for yourself and you will need to pay extra attention to the child. So think it through and make decision.