I quarreled with my mom and used vulgar slang to her.

Nepal
October 18, 2008 5:00am CST
I always use to quarrel with me mom. I know she is my mom, even though I quarrel wid her. There are several reasons we quarrel. But most of the time we are quarreling in is in intellectual thing and eachothers principle. She wants me to with her principle and I don't find her principle any good.Actually we both have different thinking and different perspective. We often quarrel, and often have fun as well, I have so much fun wid her sometime and some time its so worse anger. But most of the anger for my mother is based upon my relation with a girl, whom i want to get married with. I don't know why doesn't she likes her. She scolds her attitude always, but she've never known her but have seen her on photo. I sometime share about her with my mom. I think it is a kind of jealousy or care for me. She is scared that may she get her reputation decreased in the society if i walked with her. I am able to stay without my mother in future but not her. I want a caring wife, yes I also want a caring mother.But she doesn't understand my problems. we always have conflict on same thing. I don't like that. I've tried to control my anger I often stayed quite. But why doesn't she likes her. She always scolds her attitude.
2 responses
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
18 Oct 08
very bad!! you should never do it again!! go and ask her to forgive you!! whatever explanation you give are not acceptable!! it is totally unfair!! there may be differences on every thing but first of all she is your mother!!
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• Nepal
18 Oct 08
but what shall i do? I know all of the response here, will be just against me. But I know there will be no one to suggest me how to do. Most of will only say that I must not repeat it after all she is my mother. I don't know why can't i understand my feelings towards her. What do you think i must do? what do you suggest. I am asking you for suggestion not for the judgement that i did wrong or right. I know i Did wrong but what should i do further? I stay quite and she remains miscalculating my feelings?
@xzg555898 (210)
• China
29 Oct 08
you should not do what you have done ,after all, she is your mother ,she give your life ,if there are some misunderstanding between you ,why not sit together ,talk for a long time ,if you are patient and pure-heated ,your mother will understand you ,wish you have a happy life with your mother and girlfriend , have a nice day