the one thing you would change about your personality

hi and thank you for your post i am not shy.... so i want to give you a tip new people are not scary, they don't bite 80) yes i know, you do know this already but stay with me for a second ok if you have trouble starting a chat with someone you don't know, i think (i'm no expert by the way) that you have a kind of fear of rejection - you know what i mean "what if they don't like me" there are different ways to overcome this one is to observe your friends and see how they get into a chat with people another is to practice - at bus stops, in waiting lines, at the bar , where ever you see someone just hanging around close to you - whats the worst that can happen? a strange look, they say get lost, why care? you don't know this person but they could be your next best friend or not ok maybe i should add arrogant to my list hehe my point is i can talk to ANYONE simply 'cause if they cannot reply kindly to "hello" i dont want to be around them anyway confidence is key when you meet new people but dont over do it meeting people is like anything else you get better the more you try