Do you think she ws being rude?

October 18, 2008 1:11pm CST
A friend of my mothers said to me yesterday "oh,your hair looks nice today,not as dry as it normally does" Rude b***! My Dad doesnt think that wa a rude thing to say,what do you think?
7 responses
@mands61123 (2099)
19 Oct 08
can't really tell it all depends on her tone if she had a snotty tone then it was rude if she didn't and it was a stating the fact pleasant tone she might not have meant it that way. Only you can say really hun i wouldn't have been able to refrain myself if it was rude fro saying something along the line of oh thanks you are you using night cream you look less wrinkley today makes you look much younger!
@Kmarie923 (875)
• United States
18 Oct 08
She probably didn't mean to or even know that she was being rude. Some people are just too blunt sometimes and that is just how they are. I would have gotten offended too, but it just depends on her tone of voice. Maybe she really meant it to be nice
• Malaysia
18 Oct 08
It's not rude it's just being sarcastic. A sign of jealousy perhaps.
• Canada
18 Oct 08
It could go either way. It's all in the tone of the voice and your history with the woman. Maybe she wanted to know how you made it look less dry.
@tryxiness (4549)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
I do not think that she is being rude, not unless you two have a history of not liking each other, then maybe you are just taking what she says personally.
• India
18 Oct 08
Nope. That wasn't rude. It would have been rude if she would have told you each day about your hair. The way my friends and all tell me about my hair. I completely agree with your dad about this. That wasn't rude and you shouldn't take offense to it. But why do you think that was rude? Yes, she wasn't telling you about the bad hair each day, because she knew you would feel bad about it, but it would have been better put if she hadn't mentioned about everyday's situation bourne
@ShellyB (5244)
• United States
18 Oct 08
I think she was too blunt, a sign that she is not that young anymore. But yeah, kinda rude, I am just wondering if she was being b*****! or if that is her charming self?