a guy crying?

Philippines
October 19, 2008 8:47pm CST
well, what could ever say when you see a guy crying?.. well, in a song, Cry by Mandy Moore, we see that a guy is crying in secret.. and i wonder if what would be your reaction when you see one.. hehe.. will you ridicule him?.. or will you understand him?...as for me, it would be awkward.. but i had seen them crying during some preaching. i even cry myself. the message of the speaker would seem to touch my heart. and i also see once a guy crying asking someone to leave him alone. he wanted to grow.. it was that.. a guy crying.. hmmmm
4 responses
• United States
20 Oct 08
It is sort of a turn off. I imagine a guy as a strong creature. They never cry in front of anyone. But I have saw them cry before. I saw my dad cry once or twice. I saw a boy I like cry too. It is very awkward. I don't know what to do. I am not a person who would cry in front of people. I felt off a bike a couple of years ago. My knee was bleeding like crazy. It hurts really really bad. Everybody is staring at me, so I stand up, laugh it off and took my bike and left. I went away somewhere no one see me and cry. That's who I am. I am confused.
@howard96h (11659)
• New York, New York
20 Oct 08
If it warrants it then there is nothing wrong if a man cries. If men are never suppose to cry then we would not have the ability to do it.
@sunuxu (91)
• Vietnam
20 Oct 08
A guy is a human too. I don't see any funny reason why a guy must not cry. I cried, alot, when my best friend passed away from illness. But i think that a guy should not cry too often. He must be the place where his girl can depend on, so he must be strong enough. That's what i think.
• Canada
20 Oct 08
It depends on what the guy is crying about. If they're moved to tears over a powerful emotion then it seems fine and a shows that they have a softer side. I've seen guys cry over some really silly stuff though and it turned me off.