Sick kids

United States
October 20, 2008 11:29am CST
Do you think its right for other parents to bring their sick kids around yours and not tell you their kid is sick? My daughter was playing with this little girl and they were hugging and kissing. The parents were like thats so cute. A couple of days later I find out that she has been sick with an ear infection and I know that you can't catch an ear infection but the fever that comes with it you can. I'm really mad b/c I have alittle baby to worry about also and if you have or had a little baby that is sick you know how hard it is b/c they have so much trouble sleeping and eating when they are sick. Don't you think they should at least tell you or stop their kids from getting in your kids face? How freaking rude.
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@jfeets726 (775)
• United States
21 Oct 08
You know, this really bothers me. I can't even describe how much. I had a friend who I use to babysit her kids for on occassion because I stayed home with my daughter and worked from home at night. They were constantly coming over sick and we would all get sick. It was hard, but I finally said something to my friend. It is weird though too becuase my daughter just started full day prek this year. The second week of school I kept her home for two days. She had a nasty cough, high fever, and runny nose. You would think I committed a crime by keeping her out of school so soon. It was weird. My thinking is that I don't want sick kids around my daughter, so why on earth would I send her around others when she is sick.
• United States
22 Oct 08
I agree, I hate it when my daughter gets so sick. As a parent, it is just something that you never want to happen. Sometimes, it seems like no matter how much you hold, sing, or comfort them, they just don’t feel better. I hate feeling helpless and don’t want my daughter to suffer.
• United States
21 Oct 08
Good for you for telling her something. I think that is great that you are thinking about other kids and not giving it to them. That always happens to us. 1 gets in and then the rest of them family is right behind them. Its not so bad when my 3 year old gets sick b/c she can deal with it a little better then my 1 year old. I have to hold her up when she is sleeping while sick b/c she has trouble breathing and wakes herself up at times b/c she can't breath. I do have a humidifier on but that doesn't seem to help I just feel really bad for her. Its a pain when you can't do anything to help them out and when you do it doesn't help enough. You feel so helpless. Thats why I would rather they not get sick at all.
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
Oh that really sucks! I hate it too when kids with my kids were sick and their parent never care to mention it to me. as for your experience, fever is not contagious, fever is the reaction of the body when a foreign body is present, our anti bodies act upon to it and thus raising the temperature of the body, that is why we have fever when we have infection, our anti bodies fights the infection and cause body temperature to raise, have no worries! and yeas some parents are that insensitive, and what I do to prevent my kids from getting virus and bacteria from their playmate is I give them a lot of Vitamin C to boost their immune system
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• United States
21 Oct 08
The drs around here always tell us that when a child has a fever then they are contagious. I do give my kids alot of vitamin c and have been giving them extra since cold season is coming up but I just hate for my littlest one to get sick b/c she is so misserable. I'm a stay at home mom so we are not around little kids much but it seems that as soon as we are they are spreading their germs to us and we all get sick. Hopefully all these extra vitamins I have been giving will help us out this cold season.
@ellie333 (21016)
20 Oct 08
Hi mflower, my own son is home from school with an ear infection at the moment bless and has been burning up with it too. As a parent I will always let another parent know if my child is ill but most of the time they are infectious before whatever is wrong with them comes out anyway. I would always mix young children with chickenpox so they can catch whilst young as absolutely awful to get when older and then shingles too. Huggles. Ellie :D
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• United States
21 Oct 08
sorry to hear you son is ill and I hope he will get well soon. The mother and grandmother knew she was sick b/c she was already on medicine. I just cringe when the kids wipe their nose on their hand and touch everything before you can say a word.