Does He/She bring out the very best in you?

Philippines
October 21, 2008 1:51am CST
In every relationship each party encourages the other person to stretch their boundaries, to be more than they really are. And both partners grow emotionally and spiritually. Though im not a risk taker exactly. I always take the safe side. because im afraid of failing. But my current girlfriend is always pushing me to challenge myself. Because Good couples want the best for each other both as individuals.
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• Philippines
21 Oct 08
my relationship today is on the rocks, my boy friend is not bringing out the best in me, i do not understand on what i am into his life, i think i am with the wrong guy and it hurts me a lot. i believe that if somebody loves you, he has to share with you everything, even his deepest fears and he has to treat me like a precious stone, but that is not what i am feeling right now. i just had offlined him that i want some cool off. am i doing right? i need your advice.
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• Philippines
7 Nov 08
Well i guess you have to talk to him first, why is he giving you a cold shoulder or why he treats you that way. In that way you can analyze things if you should go on with the relationship or not. Or maybe he has some personal problems that he's hiding something from you. Try to talk with his circle of friends maybe they can help with your probs.
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
21 Oct 08
Yes, I think she was the one who was able to bring out the best in me. She taught me how to be honest to myself, and taught me how to survive in hard times. She gave me motivation to try my best in life and never give up. And until now, I am not giving up even she did. I didn't think I would give up her, because she is the best for me. I hope... :)
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
yes, in a way, my husband brings out the best in me. I hope i contribute to him too.
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@jeiyah_12 (1041)
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
On my last relationship, I must say he didn't brought out the best in me, in fact he brought out the worst in me. Maybe we're just not that destined. Our relationship was a real disaster. He was always in on my priority list but on his, I'm not there. He never cared about me, that's what I realized since our ideas don't jive. He doesn't care much on things that I say, and I was hurt for that. So, I broke up with him... Maybe next time I'll gonna find a guy that will sure and I can say, Hey he made me stronger... Just wishing! LOLs...
• United States
22 Oct 08
me?i dont have anything to bring out the best of me bcoz i dnt have bf.,but if i do i give the best of me.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
6 Nov 08
I am also the same way with you and it is my partner who always brings out the best in me in which she is always with me all of the way for being who she is is that I am already aware of and the things she can do for me to be a more good person in any way......