who cheats the most?guy or girl?

Philippines
October 23, 2008 9:14am CST
i had this in my discussion. i was asked of the same question. who cheats the most?.. but to be honest, i guess it is the guys.. maybe because of the culture factor. girls are always so loyal and so conservatice and is loving. maybe an excemption to them are those that are so flirty.. and some are really not that nice girls who happens to be growing in a liberated place. but usually, guys are more playful and could have two at one time. and even worst, three or four.. well, that is just based on my observation.. how about you? who cheats the most?..
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12 responses
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
i agree with you. guys cheats the most, but i guess, guys won't cheat actually if the girls will use their heads first before their heart. i mean, the girls should know first if the guy they are dating is married or committed to someone else so they won't end up being cheated.
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• Philippines
23 Oct 08
you are right.. guys do cheat.. but girls should be asking themselves of why their guys are cheating on them. and i think, both has a part in the said situation.. thanks!
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• United States
23 Oct 08
both
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• Philippines
25 Oct 08
it takes one to be sensitive to know the other's feelings. it really takes to know the feelings and the reasons of everything..
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@austere (2816)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
I think it's obvious!hahaha really, guys are more playful and they are sometimes not as serious as girls.. they cna be serious if they wnat to and they are especially serious and sincere in the first part of the relationship.. then after sometime, when the girl trust them so much already they tend to stray! i dont know why.. it's maybe because guys will always be guys as they said it.. they cheat, look for other girls, becomes happy and thrilled when they have 2 girls at a time.. hmmm..can tell us why's that?hehehe
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
well, that is your observation.. but let us not generalized either. there are still a lot of guys that are so sincere and can be trusted.. thanks.. i am one of them..!
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@austere (2816)
• Philippines
24 Oct 08
hahahaha!! okay okay..:) if you say so.. well, i'm sorry if i sound like stereotyping all the guys.. but that's not what i really mean!hehehe my boyfriend is a good boy too!:)
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• Philippines
25 Oct 08
i know what you mean. and i thanked you for that.. let us be friends!!
• India
23 Oct 08
Even I think the same the guys cheat most. I have heard and seen like that only. Most of the girls are very sincere and serious about life.
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• Philippines
23 Oct 08
when you say most, it is really not all. and i think, there are girls who cheats also.. hehe.. not all.. hope that yu are not.. thanks!
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• India
23 Oct 08
Ya obviously there are some girls also who cheats. but maximum guys do. And for your information I have never cheated anybody. I loved only one guy in my life and I already got married to him. Nobody else have propsed me. Only he proposed me and we loved each other and got married.
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• Philippines
25 Oct 08
wow, congrats to you!!..
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@spoiled311 (5502)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
hi jing! it really depends upon the conviction of the person. he or she can be a girl or a boy, and both can be promiscuous, yet both can also be loyal. so it really depends. my husband and i are both faithful to each other. and i am well aware of it. his father and brothers and my own father are very faithful and loving men. so it really depends. how about you? what kind of a person are you? hehe take care and God bless you jing! :-) keep on mylotting!
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• Philippines
23 Oct 08
i am also loyal amm. i am trying to be as much as possible to be commited. i am not in a relationship yet.. and i am trying really hard to obey the commandment of the Lord.. thanks!
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• China
24 Oct 08
of course the boys,cause they are bold ,& girls are afriad to be catched by teachers ,also it's a terrible sense for a girl cheats.
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• Philippines
25 Oct 08
you are right. girls are thus afraid to be catch. society calls girls to be conservative..
@argie713 (1809)
• Philippines
24 Oct 08
Most cheaters are guys. The society's double standard would cause a cheating girl much humiliation. That is why girls tend to be loyal. Guys sometimes treat girls as trophies the more girls you have means you're a better guy. Girls body deteriorate after giving birth to a child. We lose our sexiness and appeal, that is why guys try to find more sexier women.
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• Philippines
25 Oct 08
hehe... you are so mean my dear friend. there are still guys who remained loyal to the end. but you are right though. guys do cheat more than girls. but when girls cheat, society would judge them.. hmmmm
@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
24 Oct 08
I do believe that guys cheats the most than girls. Girls are afraid to cheat because society can not still accept the girl who cheats. When a guy cheats the society will just say, no wonder he is a guy but if a girl cheats, it would be a big issue and i still can't understand that concept
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• Philippines
25 Oct 08
you are right.. but let us not generalized all. there are still guys who are faithful and loyal.. but still, survey says, guys do the cheating most.. hehe
@hildas (3031)
23 Oct 08
It is defenitely Guys. Check it out on internet, well according to one survey anyway. Women are bad too, but not as bad as guys.
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
women rules - women are moving to higher levels..
but it is really unlikely for the girls to be the one who is bad. it is not so like them.. and it is good that as of now, guys are bad. hehe.. but not all of us..
@jojinhere (187)
• India
23 Oct 08
why just blame guys...its actually a difficult side of things...there are a plenty of guys who are completely loyal to their dear ones...infact love the gal more than the gal loves them...and most of these girls do take advantage of these guys and it is truly a sad fact but truth always remain the truth...
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
i salute you!.. you are right. there are really guys who loves their girlfriend or wife honestly and sincerely .. and there are really girls who takes an advantage over these guys.. poor..
@omar0913 (943)
• Legaspi, Philippines
23 Oct 08
Guys fo me cause we are polygamus by nature. But when girl do this cheating, they are the one which is too serious to do so.
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• Philippines
25 Oct 08
yeah you are right there. and one should do the breaking up when there is no more good a relatioship is giving..
• Malaysia
23 Oct 08
To me and based on my own experience there is never a clear cut between a guy or a girl. I have come across a close friend who had been cheated by her husband over and over again. But because she loved her she ignored what her husband did and pretended that nothing had happened. But I think she is very stupid because besides that she is keeping a grudge against his husband but threw out her anger towards people around her. I can't stand her attitude and now i no longer be her friend because she has turned out to be an evil in the heart. She is never happy to see our happiness and always wants to find a way to separate my husband and me. I have also seen a guy whom had been lied to by his wife. This guy is my husband's friend. He is very loyal to his wife, but behind his back his wife had done so many mischieves. But this guy loves her too much and he forgive her every time she messed up their relationship. As a conclusion, cheating doesn't choose gender. Everyone is prone to do it.
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• Philippines
25 Oct 08
wow, that is a sad story to know. but i guess, she lets her emotions rule her life. i just hope that she'll see someone who could lead her along the way.. hmm. thanks for sharing.. she is does somewhat stupid.. but she needs some guidance
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
23 Oct 08
men are born polygamous, right? therefor, men cheats more than women. even if we're not living in a society that women cheats the same as men....majority of it is still the men
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