love hurts

October 23, 2008 10:55am CST
This is for a friend: Did you ever encounter a case wherein the boyfriend is hurting intentionally or not the girlfriend but however painful it may seem, the girl swallows it because she is afraid that she'll be dumped? What will i advice to address her feelings to the boyfriend? Is it right that i will intervene?
3 responses
@deedeehall (1144)
• United States
18 Nov 08
this is really sad i hope she gets tired of being hurt after awhile and decides she wants to be dumped by this guy because she deserves to be treated better.
@jojinhere (187)
• India
23 Oct 08
hmmm ya to an extent this statement is very much truly hurts...especially when you have to hurt your parents,your loved ones for your does hurt....but after knowing the very true fact that you are hurting these many people yet you cannot leave her/him and that portrays the value of true love:)
@efemtee (158)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
Being a friend, you must at least tell her of what you feel about her situation. You should tell here that it hurts you seeing here like that and you want her to be happy. Well anyway, it must then be her choice from then on if she follows your advice. You are not really intervening; you are just telling her the truth about thing. If anything happened after that, whatever the outcome, you must be glad that you were at least able to help her in some way. :)