Should I tell him I love him?

China
October 24, 2008 9:27am CST
There is a guy that we have been good friends since the second year in senior high school.He is so sweet that no matter what happen to me,I would tell him.When I'm happy,he would be happy too.When I'm sad,then he would make me happy...But one day he told me he was in love with a girl.I was so sad and I realized I love him... We have been together for nearly six years. But now he has had a girl...Should I tell him the truth?Please help me!
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11 responses
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
This is what you should do, since he has already a girl then tell him that since you already have a girl then I guess I should have my man too. And make yourself more beautiful, impress her. Know what qualities his girl has and of course make yourself more than that girl. Or even tell him that there's a guy who has a crush on you and starting to court you. It's like that, hope you get my points! If you will be lucky which is I guess you will, then your friend will sooner be your lover! Goodluck! Have a nice day! Take care :)
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
Ok, so you just have to admit it. Since you don't want to fight for your feelings for him, you must learn to accept that he is just your friend and it's wrong to love him. Don't worry I'm sure there's still a lot of guys out there who is better than him and willing to love you. Open your heart to others. But if you really meant for each other, then it will still be the both of you together at the end. Just don't expect, God knows the best for you. Good luck and take care! Don't be sad ok? :)
• China
25 Oct 08
yes,what you said may play a role.But I don't want to let him feel uncomfortable.Maybe he love the girl deeply.And if I do this,both of him and his gf would not happy.
• United States
24 Oct 08
If he in love with another girl then I wouldn't tell him and my reason is I did this same thing years ago and what happen is he went to tell the girl and then the girl made sure that the friendship had ended. I guess if he loved you back then you might have a postive reaction but if he don't then he tell that girl and she will make sure that you are no longer in the picture. I think friendship is more important and will be hard to save if his girlfriend is upset with you.
• China
24 Oct 08
Yeah,what you said is awful... If it may happen,I would never tell him.So we can be best friends forever,right?I really don't want to lose him.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
25 Oct 08
i think there is no point of you to tell him that you love him anymore because he already has a gf now... the gf might not like what you are doing and you might wreck their relationship... i won't do it if i were in your position and i will just look for another man and let him go... take care and have a nice day...
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• Philippines
24 Oct 08
If you decided to tell him what you felt towards him you should bear all the consequences at the end. So before you tell him I suggest that you right down the pros and cons so you will know what will be the effect at the end. You should also consider what will happen or how the other girl will react if you tell him the truth because no matter what she will surely know about your confession. Are you ready for that?
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• China
24 Oct 08
If it was me,I think I would not tell him about this.I think now that he was in love with a gril,if he is truly love her,he should search for his real love.Sometimes love is really complex,and really hurts a lot .Or you could talk to him about your feelings but I do not know what will happen then.
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@ranbio (53)
• China
25 Oct 08
Hey,girl.Love is in the heart,not in the mouth.If u love him,u should consider his feeling.If u consider what will happen when u tell him ,and u must bear the bad consequence that may happen.If u told him,maybe u wont be friends.Hope u find your soul mate,good luck.
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• Malaysia
18 Nov 08
I think you should keep that , dont tell him that you love him, dont make yourself feel bad atfer telling him the truth because you already know that he was in love with a girl, and you dont know if he also in love with you or he just treats you as a good friend only. it's better to keep away your feeling and continue to be her good friend.
• India
24 Oct 08
i think u love him very much and should tell him everything even he may have the same feelings for you u never know u just needto take a chance just do it maybe it gets too late.if he is soo comfortable with you and cares so much about you i bet he likes you and maybe is afraid that u will tell him no thats why he is not proposing to you..cmon move it.. if u like ma response then please amrk it as best
• China
25 Oct 08
Yes,I love him.But it's stupid that I find it so late.We are together for six years.But I thought we were just friends.Chance waited for me 6 years,but I missed it...I'm an idiot.
@loxion (1553)
• India
24 Oct 08
Tell him exactly how you feel about him and listen to his side of the story. If he denies your love then you just have to respect that but as for now you can tell him.
• China
25 Oct 08
I think you should tell him,because this is the only way that he knows you love him,and you can get a result,nomatter it is bad or good.
@kunizzul (1066)
• Malaysia
17 Nov 08
Hi friend...Actually your situation now would be a little difficult as your friend now has found his love. If you tell him your feeling now I'm afraid that it will affects your relationship with him. But if you really love him, I think you should let him know what's your feeling right now. That's would depends on you how will you tell him as I did not know him. You know him well and should know what is the best way to let hi know your feeling towards him.=)